Hello, fellow Sargers!

Suns shining, got the day off work, and there's a beach near by. I go down with some of my school notes and read for a bit. Then I see one girl really pretty by herself, and this is where it goes bad...
I approach casually enough,
Me: Water still to cold for you?
Her:yeah
Me:no friends had the day off work today eh?
Her:Yeah,
But then I take someones advice on here, I read on one of my posts. It was to the effect of "Why don't you talk to her like a normal human F**jinf being?".

and guess what I did just that, made my usually quips and jokes got her laughing about life, but then the conversation descended in to just that LIFE you know? Jobs,loans,payments,landlords,groceries, what where doing with ourselfs...
A women you are picking up does NOT want you to talk to her like a normal fu&*^(% being, and this is why...

Life sucks, its hard and disappointing, its not nice, and not a walk in the park no matter who you are.If your that fun PUA who walks up to a girl and helps her escape reality for a bit,chances are you'r going to get somewhere with that girl.

So continuing with this girl. When I asked her for her number for the first time EVER, I got hesitation... she was probably thinking O wow this guys a lot of fun, being all responsible and sh(&.... I texted her but haven't gotten a response..I usually at least get a response, was pretty upset with myself so just deleted the number...

and that my friends is why you do NOT talk to her like a FU(*&^% human being, but like someone picked form the audience to engage with the star performer YOU!
~William Shakespear


Sincerely,
Compass

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She probably liked you but you just didn't make your intentions clear enough. She just ended up sticking you in the friendzone. If you can communicate that subtext clearly enough then that should clear up your problem.

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When I feel boring, I talk to people like normal human beings. When I feel normal, I talk to them about interesting things, with more energy and enthusiasm - and I do this at my job to my collegues, I do this at my sparetime to my friends, to my family, to guys in a bar, to girls in a club, wherever. It doesn't have to be something you do to girls only. Try to be that person all the time instead!

Just as an update,

Did get a response from me saying "Hey its compass!? Does this thing work or what?". From her via text, as in "Hey!!!" "Wuzzup?" at like 10:30pm at night and didn't bother texting back and wont until tomorrow morning, see where this takes me...


As in response to posts;,

Yes, should have communicated what I was after, its part of the bit ,just today was so relaxing with the nice weather, and more or less just wanted to talk to a pretty girl. There's usually goals and aims in mind, so the asking for number before I left was kind of a clockwork response I suppose... which is why it probably caught her off guard.

Secondly, as for acting how you'r feeling in different situations, for myself this is highly inappropriate... my personality at its best is sarcastic, and witted, but this is very inappropriate in my place of work... we'll call it "the service industry". I find giving people what they want, but at the same time not really caring works incredibly well; hows that for a paradox?.

We all wear "A Mask" or maybe that's just me?.


Thanks again fellow PUAs,
and may all you'r lines be straight, and your HBs 10s


Sincerely,
Compass

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~Compass

That's why you start to escalate things. Transition to more riskier topics, do some kino, use the us mentality. etc..;

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You got it ALMOST right.

YES, YOU SHOULD talk to her like a normal person, at least in the beginning. However, you don't
want to stay there for ever. At some point, especially when you start to feel the conversation
dying out, you want to start PLAYING with the girl.

What's playing?

You tease her about how much she likes you...how much she's a playa' who picks up guys...and you
move things to more sexual conversation.

For example, you two are talking about how the weather is great, and then you say,

"Yea it is...I would just with you'd keep your eyes on the sun instead of my butt..I feel
embarrassed..."

Or

"You know this just isn't fair...I mean I'm trying to be all normal and casual and talk about
the weather, but you gotta be all nice and sexy I can't even focus...that just isn't fair..."

So you do start with normal conversation, but then you need to move to a more playful
conversation where you're teasing her, playing with her and being sexual with her.

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