So I texted a girl last night at like 3 am, obviously for a booty call.

We've screwed around in the past but haven't fucked.

She responds 12 hours later with: "Texting me so late lol"

Trying to think of a good response to this. She's definitely down, but I'm not quite sure what to say.

Oh didn't realise you have a curfew now

What you were sleeping? How old are you again?

Oh what time is your bed time again? 8?

I wouldn't even acknowledge this text or the fact that you texted her at 3am. Just talk about something unrelated (making sure to leave at least 12 hours yourself, mind you). Then text her at 3am again sometime. Keep doing this, but don't acknowledge that you're doing this in any way or respond to any comment on it UNLESS she responds AT 3AM.

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Look. If a girl texts you at 3 am, you know that she wants your cock. It's the same when you text a girl at 3 am. She knows that you want her pussy.

Responding 12 hours later is basic play-hard-to-get girlie game. She knows that you want her pussy and is playing hard to get.

Since the cat is already out of the bag, the best course of action is to make her pussy wet. Take your pick:

1. Mental foreplay + Physical foreplay
2. Standalone physical foreplay
3. Standalone mental foreplay

What works for me in this case is to go aggressive in letting her know that I really want her for 3 straight days and nights. If I don't get any pussy during that period, I go no contact and dump.

So what's palatable to your taste? You really can't go indirect now that you've gone too direct with that 3 am text.

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True enough. So what do you read into her text. That she is teasing him. That's why I suggested being unreactive and just trying again later.

I'm only suggesting not replying to this text because I don't think there's a good reply to be made. I think ignoring would be better. I don't consider it a "hard-to-get girly game", just avoiding getting into a dead-end conversation, which is what I think any of the above text replies would do.

The 12 hours thing is not necessarily the point. The point is resuming the conversation on his terms at his own leisure and not commenting on this unnecessary observation of hers (he knows he texted her late, she's only mentioning it to him to see what reaction he'll give her).

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Two things can happen in this case:

1. The girl is excited.

2. The girl is turned off.

To be sure if she's turned on or not, I'm suggesting that the OP go sexual. If it's face to face, physical foreplay is in order. If it's through text, mental foreplay is the name of the game. If she responds this time faster than 12 hours, OP has to spread the butter on the pancakes while they're hot, then drizzle on the maple syrup when it gets better. 3 straight days of making her pussy wet is all it takes as long as the responses are good then OP can slam his sausage in her pancake pig style.

If the girl responds longer than 12 hours to a sexting bait, OP can try again next time.

Bacon is also good with pancakes but Hungarian sausages appear to go a lot better as a combo.

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I texted her about the curfew line. We made a few jokes.

She's definitely dtf, I've had her back at my place twice, but always encountered hard LMR.

She told me, "Well your 3 am texts will never work."

And then she followed that up with, "Well, probably not."


So yeah, she's pretty down. I'm hotter than she is.


She's studying to take the LSAT this week (damn coeds). I might give her a "break" from studying.

She's excited.

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