Thursday evening I went for a date with a girl who's number I got during one daygame session, i.e. I had talked to her for about 5 minutes before I took her number.

I took her to a semi-private mini-cellar in a wine bar and the date went pretty well, to the extent that after 2 hours I was kissing her ear, shoulder and back of the neck. She was clearly enjoying it and was playing along, pushing me off playfully from time to time, playing with my chest hair beneath my shirt and, when I was kissing her other ear, she started kissing my ear as well. Before we left the place (after about 2 and a half hours) she would kiss me pretty passionately whenever my lips moved anywhere close to her lips (with me intending to tease her - she would just go and grab my mouth). Besides lot of sexual stuff she did say some things like "what kind of a girl do you think I am" and "Do you do this with every girl? I met you on the street" which indicated some defense on her part.

When we left we walked about a bit towards her and my place (it turned out we live pretty close) and we came by my street but I didn't really want to invite her in at that time because I had just moved in like a week ago and still needed some things like a proper duvet, sheets, etc. (that's all sorted by now). So I had walked past and towards her place, from time to time I would suddenly start kissing her (mouth and everywher else) and she would respond back pretty well, with me usually being the one who pulled off, though not always. As we came to the door of her apartment block she said "Good night" to which I responded by kissing her some more. She would put a hand on my chest and playfully, with a small amount of force, push me off just a tiny bit. I would grab one of her fingers and briefly suck it, then start kissing her again, and did this about 3 or 4 times more, with her doing her light push-off gesture but kissing back passionately.

So finally I tried the "I need to go to the bathroom" line (I don't have stuff prepared for this situation cause I normally take/try to take girls to my place) which didn't work, so I kissed her some more, said "good night" and left.

The following day (Friday) neither of us sent a text. On Saturday afternoon I sent her a "^_^" message, followed by "I have a dream" but she hasn't replied back anything (now it's Sunday evening for reference). Prior to the date she would reply to every message within an hour and a half.

My question is what's the best approach to take now. Should I just not contact her for a couple of days more, should I send her a message in like 2 or 3 days, should I give her a call some time? From the occassional moans during the evening I could tell she really liked it, don't know if I just blew it with being too pushy at her place. Normally I have the problem of taking easily the first or second no "no" for a final answer so I try to compensate for that (but not too excessively I think).

Normally I wouldn't be too bothered but I quite liked her. I will apply the standard solution to this problem which is get more numbers and dates but it would be pretty cool if I didn't lose this girl, as she is not just reasonably hot but also smart and playful.

Move on and forget about her. If you keep reaching out then your chasing her. Lowering your value and increasing hers. PUA's dont put pussy on a pedastal. I would assume she only wanted fun for that night because i dont see why she would not respond

contact her in a couple days again. try a different approach in your text message ^___^ and "I Have A Dream" may not give her motivation to really respond. What the hell does she say to that?

Also don't give up texting her... why would you be afraid of SPAM your "value". That's only something to be afraid of if you're not confident in yourself. Don't ruin your chances because you're trying to play it safe and protect your value. Maybe she was working and forgot about the text and went to bed. Nobody knows.

So always text a girl 4 times during 4 seperate occasions before you give up. If she thinks you're a pussy... it doesn't matter. If you have Inner Game you don't give a shit what people think.


If you really want to come at a "confident" & sarcastic angle you can say

"JESUS you text so SLOW! I've been waiting on your response for 48 hours"

but use something congruent with yourself.

Peace

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Thanks, I have texted her again today with no response, so I am moving on. At least I have my bed set up now so next time it will be realistic for me to steer things towards my place.

I think within the community people are hung up on the three day rule. I think it's bullshit and outdated because women have known about it for years. They make movies about this shit so when you wait past a day it's obvious you're trying to get at them which is a huge turn off.

I suggest, in the future, to simply message her the next day with a text "Last night was fun. We should do it again sometime. " Keeping it simple and it doesn't require a response. If she says "Yeah, it was great. I want your dick in my mouth" you can wait a day or two and then say you're free on X and want to meet up for your second date. If she doesn't reply to your first message the day after you can do the same anyway. If she doesn't reply after that or says she can't then reschedule on a day of your choosing. If she backs out again just move on. You'll have tried a sufficient amount and gotten a definitive answer.