Should i make something romantic, im going to say this girl which I know a long time, Im going to tell her my feelings. I kept some attraction and i didnt boder her, i left her space, but im crazy about her and i must tell her that.

Any suggestions ?

Sorry for bad English, cheers!

Haha, don't do it.

Instead, do this:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/06/ ... iend-zone/

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Don't

Actions speak louder than words

Confessing your feelings to this girl will mean the end of whatever you think you have with her.

Welcome to the friend zone.

Hey I didnt listen to you all and I made for her perfect surprise, she was speechless, hope i said it right... I didnt win her but I felt good for making that surprise, and also like guy above me said its all over whatever we had, cause now Im clear to myself that i did it and failed, and if i didnt make this i would be wondering what if what if...
I pass her in the hallway like she doesnt exist, talk to everyone in the room exept her, and im not sad now, im faking* happy!

Just here to let you know that i felt good about this failure

Cheers!

Well, on an existential level I think your actions indicate that you didn't really want her anyways. If you wanted to show her your feelings and have her reciprocate them then there are specific steps you have to take.

You should at least still be amiable with her. Maybe not best friends, but don't be rude. You fucked up, why are you going to be passive-aggressive towards her?

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-Slavoj Zizek

Don't do that. If you haven't slept with her then don't bother opening your mouth.

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Why shouldnt I be passive- aggressive? I think thats the best way to act after what happend 2 days ago
Act like nothing happend, act like she doesnt exist, i just say hi on the street no chats like we used to have for 15-20 min on the streetwalk and still she knows how i felt but I ignore her. Im sure theres no better way than this one

Its a long story about us, we had attraction a year ago, but i had a gf, and then she got bf, when i broke up i waited for her to brake up with her bf, and then started to build some attracion again, i flirted with her she was following all good. Left her space, didnt boder at all, once we exchange msgs in a month. And thats it, i know that her bestfriend has major influence on her and i wouldnt be surprised if she was a part of this.


Once again, im happy that i made this girl speechless, and she said to her best friend that she felt awkward - not sure about spelling sorry - cause it was beutiful but she refused me. Her best friend is an arrogant flaky girl, my vocabulary is bad in english so i cant describe her well...

And for that what you said I fucked up? You definitly cant say that cause you dont know whole surprise, and our background, i may say i did what i suposed to do, buy she acted like a bitch

Lots of girls in my school have crush on me , and I think that she did this just to say later how she refused me, and how i did that for her that special thing and she was too good to me that she had to refuse me... yesterday i heard from her friends when she was telling them how she refused me they were answering to her that she fucked it up, and that we were perfect couple when they see us talking and negging each other on hallways and street but she had to stay a hot babe that can refuse everyone.


Cheers all!

Well, if you're happy that you've failed then it's good that you're happy. Failure.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Bro you definitly didnt have crush on any girl like I had.
So call it failure, but its succses, one day you'll understand

Well, I once had crushes on girls, but now I think they're useless. It's better to DO something about those feelings; not getting laid and not getting affection and not getting a date is NOT a success.

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-Slavoj Zizek

Once again, you never had crush like this so I understand you, you waited for 8 months for her to brake up, no you've never done that, so I understand you

Hope you ll remember my posts if you ever get crazy about one girl, and then she refuses you. She failed cause i would have done anything for her, and now im happy and i did succeded cause i have found out that she doesnt deserve me, even i was 100% sure she did.

We can argue about this until you get to my position, if you ever get to my position

Dude, you failed with her but you don't want to admit it. We all had those crushes, yours are not different.

Haha, hey we all make mistakes. I'm sure I'll ask for your help some time... if I ever want to fail.

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The ultimate lesson of psychoanalysis is that human life is never "just life": we are possessed by the strange drive to enjoy life in excess, attached to a surplus which derails the ordinary run of things.
-Slavoj Zizek

Great, i ll be there to give you some full of shit advice :*