What to do while waiting to meet the 'one'



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PostPosted: Wed May 21, 2014 9:29 pm 
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Any suggestions on what to do while waiting around to meet the all around high quality girl that
has everything looks personality, chemistry, etc.
I'm very high level. Do Very well.


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PostPosted: Wed May 21, 2014 9:34 pm 
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Get a hobby. If you're high level you probably don't really have the time to just be twiddling your thumbs anyway.

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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 12:03 am 
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what you mean by doing very well?


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 4:17 am 
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The ability to pick up just about anyone.


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 7:42 am 
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so you are asking suggestions about what YOU should do? :S jezz that's some free time you have...


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 8:12 am 
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Get in contact with girls from your past. All their friends will open up new doors.


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 8:19 am 
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Strange question... Do whatever you feel like and makes you happy, of course! If you are looking for the 'one' you need to keep meeting women until it clicks. Obviously.

I have always been curious about people who claim they can get "just about anyone", because it's impossible. The most obvious impossible targets are lesbians. Next after that you have all girls who are perfectly happy and in love with their boyfriends/husbands, even though my "expertise" is getting girls with boyfriends. To keep adding to the list we have all girls who are very different to you in personality, having completely different values than you, knowing exactly what kind of man they are looking for, and you are disqualified as soon as you enter the room just from your looks (for instance, rich women looking for a CEO when you are dressed in t-shirt and jeans, or working class women looking for that t-shirt and jeans guy when you are dressed up to your teeth in a tail-coat).


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 2:35 pm 
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Looking for advice from someone who like me has phenomenal pua ability, can get it all, but hasn't met the right one. Who understands the psychology of the situation and can speak to it. (PUA Lounge is for experts, not general/newbie questions).


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 7:30 pm 
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I dunno. Just hang out, I guess. What you're experiencing is called "ENNUI". You should probably find some other interests than just pick up.

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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 7:51 pm 
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Looking for advice from someone who like me has phenomenal pua ability, can get it all, but hasn't met the right one. Who understands the psychology of the situation and can speak to it. (PUA Lounge is for experts, not general/newbie questions).
Adjust your expectations for women, because there is no "the one" who is perfect in every way. Someone who has such phenomenal game as yourself should obviously know this.

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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 7:53 pm 
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Don't bother waiting for such a woman. Just enjoy yourself and if you do get along well with someone with little effort you'll know you'll be happy with her. Don't put them on a pedestal for any reason.


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 10:15 pm 
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Thanks for the answer Fury. I think you get it.

The psychology I'm currently under. Before I got really great, I thought I'd been able to find a quality girl that I get along with no problem.

What happened is...I became great at game. Can get ALOT of girls. But here's the key. Your still waiting to run into the girl that you "click" with. Mutual interests, enjoy being around. Tyler RSD mentioned that this happens every 6 months or so, meeting that great girl. So it's frustrating when you have the ability but not the target.
This is a high level quality problem. I've worked my ass off becoming good at the game. Just seeing if anyone else has experienced this and has anything motivational to say. It'll probably all resolve itself over time. I appreciate and am familiar with the basic answers. Thanks to every guy for their input.

This is the level I'm talking about:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NWk05YTt ... 1lOG5LwYnT

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06UnHtD1ZbY


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 10:45 pm 
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Depends what you want man and throwing words around like "psychology", improper use of punctuation and inability to differentiate between "you're" and "your" aren't qualities that are going to net you that "quality girl." Any woman will just see your lack of the English language as a major downside.

The only advice I would give is to reassess where and who you're targeting. You generally won't find "the one" in night game. There's a snowballs chance in hell you'll meet her in a pub or club so try your hand at day game or social game(Friends of friends). That's not to say you won't find a nice girl out and about in a pub or club, they sometimes go to these places but if your go to pick up area is some sleezefest you're only going to find easy and sleezy women.


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PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2014 11:08 pm 
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you could just get a life. lol


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PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2014 10:10 am 
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you could just get a life. lol
And then the pot said to the kettle "wazzup my nigger".


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