So I made an effort to finally ask out a chick. We never really confirm things but I'm pretty sure we are going on a date this weekend. At the time I didn't get to ask her to tailgate and drink with my friends belfry the concert. Were going with our friends not just us two by ourselves BTW. So with that being said should I go ghost on her all week and see if maybe she texts me? Or should I text her and really try to make sure she knows I don't want this to be just two friends hanging out.

The backstory of that chick is we met about a year ago madeout and things just died mainly because I just waited to long to do anything and play hard to get to long. Now I'm trying to pick things back up. If you guys think I should text her, how do I do it without sounding to needy or desperate? I know ppl also talk about the mystery girls like. Should I just go with it and just when the day comes and we are there just do what friends wouldn't do?

You can consider that make out a year ago nonexistent. Is she never really confirms that means she's interested enough not to blow you off but not enough to commit and maybe she just doesn't want to make things awkward because she's going to have to see you this weekend with her friends. If you ghost her, she won't reply. She's texting many guys that she's probably more interested in. If you text her everyday and go in too direct you'll come off as needy and you might even spook her. Your best bet is to maybe send her one or two texts during the week just like something funny that demonstrates higher value. Then on game day don't come on strong but just be the fun guy of the group and game her as if it were just your personality. Shit game her friend a little too in front of her. Then a bit into the interaction see if you can't isolate her for a dance. Once you guys are dancing it shouldn't be to hard to go for the makeout. At that point if she's really enjoying the concert just chill out untill you guys meet up afterward and escalate from there. If she's not too into the music suggest you go somewhere more private. If she asks why say something like "I want to kiss you like I want to kiss you". FInd someplace secluded then start with making out, touch her very physically. Once you get hard grab her hand and put it on your dick, she'll love it and start rubbing it. At that point whip it out and she'll start giving you a handjob. Try pushing her down to blow you. Either way give her a minute then start rubbing the outside of her pants and stick you're finger in her mouth. She'll suck on it seductively then stick it down her pants and start fingering her. After she starts moaning pull down her shorts completely bend her over and fuck her. I've done this exact thing twice. If at any point she resists just take a step back stay there for a moment then push forward.

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