So ill just laid it out in the basics thanks in advance
I've been talking with this girl for 6 months HB9
We hang out often
Text and call here however I am the one to initiate and when she doesn't reply I won't hit her up for a few days
She doesn't turn me down wen I ask to hang out or go on a date however she doesn't want to go to clubs with me she'll rather go with her friends
She tells me I play hard to get however I feel that is what she is doing
Also she has never said she likes and when I ask her if she says she doesn't however I think she does, oh and also she is not the kind that shows her feelings
Also never sex or grabbing just kissed a few times she is still I virgin
At the moment I feel I am trying to hard also I have no clue as to how she feels towards me and it's as if she has the upper hand
whats your guys advice so that I can flip the situation around

Sounds like she isn't that interested and she's probably more trouble than she's worth (especially as a virgin). If you've been working this six months and haven't gotten anywhere, let it go, dude.

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Your game seems to be inefficient and you need to make things happen. Playing hard to get will never take you anywhere! As they say at RSD - be clear in your intent! That means that you have to give her IOIs and show your interest in her, and cut the crap.

I suppose you already have your kino in place and that you guys are physical with each other? If so, you need to be verbal with her, confront her and tell her straight up and down what you want from it all, and ask her what she wants. The "difficult" part is the delivery - that you appreciate a yes (that she wants you too), but accept a no with disappointment only, nothing more. If you get a no, just move on with your life.

Stop playing games. Be straightforward and ask her out or to be your gf. If not, move on

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