this has actually happened for a few times. every time i talk to a club promoter for a longer while, a male promoter would come out from nowhere and physically pull her away by holding her hands. the HB would be continuing talking to her male promoter friend, because they knew each other and i am just a stranger.

these male club promoters are usually tall and good looking. i mean i am not too short but these guys are usually 6'3 or 6'4.

anyone with experiences of pulling club promoters, please give me some advices.

Question for you... whats your lifestyle like in comparison to hers?

i am not looking for a long term relationship. many guys would be even afraid to approach them. i think it's the time for me to set the bar higher

club promoters in my town are usually girls from my uni. so they are not as hard to approach as they seem to be.

I know someone who used to be a club promoter. She was easy as hell. I even could've got her if my game was right a couple of years back and I knew what to say to her in order to pull her. She had two kids as a result of her easiness.... lol!

Too bad she's married now and she's out of the club scene

Anyway point is.... it's not as hard to pull em as you think. Just be yourself and don't be a pushover because that thing that you mentioned with guys pulling her away may happen more than you think

I used to be a club promoter. I know tons of female club promoters. I've picked some. they are human, not ET's. they eat and shit like everyone else. they are usually easygoing people and easy to speak with. you just have to approach and escalate in a different way that most guys do. that will set you apart from the rest.
but it's really like any other girl. there isn't much difference.

what would you do if you were in that situation? i want to be more prepared to deal with situations like this in the future. thanks

i could talk to a promoter for 10 minutes at most, because they have to serve other customers. what i usually do is introducing myself and make an impression. i wouldn't ask for their numbers, because i know they would definitely say no.

after talking with the promoter for a short while, i would try to open all the sets in the club to raise my value. i do that in the hope of getting the promote's attention. but i didn't re-engage the promoter in my previous night outs (i don't know what to say).

have you got any tips to offer?

not really sorry. my game is completely different. I make them ask MY number. they don't realise it that it was me that manipulated things in order for that to happen. they want me so there's no need for me to ask. I'm the best guy around. in fact I'm the best guy they ever met in their entire life. they should thank me just for talking to them. be alpha. you want to n close IF you meet the promoter at the workplace. which isn't a good idea actually. you really want to stand out. a promoter gets approached all the time. you need to be different, special, high value you want to stand from the crowd.
there isn't much more into it.

Because if you're lifestyle isn't anything like her lifestyle (i.e. spending most of your time in or around night clubs and the crowds that come with them) you're not going to know what to do with this girl. Most guys don't know how to handle women who are getting hit on all the time. You may say that you don't want a relationship... But because you asked about this particular girl, I bet that if you ever fuck this girl... Her pussy is going to be like a drug to you and you're going to scare her off.

To answer your question... You probably want to find out what night is "industry night" in your area and go out that night. Meet her in a place that isn't where she works so you're not hitting on her infront of her boss. I don't give a fuck how cool of a guy you are... No girl is going to put her job on the line flirting with some guy that she doesn't even know.

inner game is very important. but what did you do specifically to make them want you?
what is the best place to meet promoters outside of their workplace?
how do you stand out? do you refer to the way that we approach? or do you refer to things we do in our life (e.g. captain in the sports team, model, join the army)?

thanks man. i agree with you it is important to be on the same wavelength with the target. i am not going for a specific promoter. i know i am a little bit shallow i just wanna hook up with any promoter.

interesting. i shall find out the industry night in my town.

actually i am aiming at picking up hired guns recently (promoters, A&F floor models, flight attendant...) i've spent so much time learning pick up i am not settling for an ordinary girl