Ok, here's the deal...I went to bartending school and met HB10 and she took the trial class and she didn't know whether to continue the class. My teacher was convincing her to go take it (he's a horndog). Well, she wasn't falling for it and I pretty much just said, "just take it...trust me it's fun and great." and she was convinced. I talked to her outside for a bit, just afc style and stuff and thought to myself...man....she's probably a bitch......

After a few weeks, I saw her at this bar we always practice bartending at and
my teacher said that a person from his weekend class knew me...I asked, "was she hot?" and he said...I forgot....and then a girl said...."Oh I was the one who said I knew him!" I was like.....wooooow (it was HB10).....she was with a friend and the friend seemed like a bitch.

Then weeks went by and found her myspace and she told me she was bartending at this one bar (let's call it Seven). So I visit her every week, teaching her how to make drinks that I've came up with. I also invited her to a bartending seminar and she was upset I didn't take her...

I've gotten the courage to get her number and I NEVER called her, even up until now....because I promised her that I'd take her to this one korean bar I go to and I never keep my promise. That went on for weeks. She even put me on the spot when I was with my friends at Seven......"mmmhmmm.....cuz SOMEONE never calls me...." I keep canceling for weeks now....i've been busy for my feb 8 event....she's actually promoting for me and is gonna be at my event.

....well here's the thing, she's korean (my weakness, i'm also asian) and she's older than me by 3 years...I'm 22. It seems that she enjoys my company and likes it when I visit her....but I get scared sometimes that I won't have anything to talk about...I don't even know what kind of guys she's into!!

I found out that she's incredibly nice!!! and I'm like....I recruit and work with models for a living.....why am I having a hard time with this one!? I guess it's that she's probably too good to be true and she's the first girl and probably the only girl I'm TRYING to pursue for the last 3 months (i started liking her 2 months ago, i met her in august)....and I've only decided to be a pua 3 weeks ago.

I'm meeting her tonight at her bar again....I don't know what to do...please help...

just think about it bro.. if you dont do anything, then nothing will happen right? sorry i dont have a concrete advice im new myself. but u should take those opportunities (sp?)

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It seems as if your creating a higher value for this girl. It sounds like she is more important to you than vice versa. I would think you would need to create a lower value for this girl that way ur not sweatin the fact that she so hot. then u might b able to complete. after all she obviously is into u. the ball is in ur court u just need to shoot it.

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You have put her on a pedestal she probably doesn't deserve to be on. A confident guy wouldn't worry about conversations you have yet to have. Instead swallow your fear and go for it.

The regret for never going for it will linger longer than the atempt to go for it and failing. From the sounds of it, she digs you and you have nothing to lose.

exactly what everyone else is saying if she mentions you never calling just tell her youve been really busy dhv yourself, call her up and let her know hey Ill be here at x and x time at x place, meet me up there if youd like, dont worry about her looks man, shes into you youve got the attraction phase down raise kino and get her more comfortable with you, sounds like a acase of one-itis, and the rules for that is go out and fuck 10! haha, na man just like in mma you have her in your half guard and shes trying to pass it swoop in there and go from there

Hey guys thanks alot for your posts! I got a DATE with her!!!!! I'm picking her up at her work and dropping her off home after, she said she didn't have my phone number so that she couldn't get in contact of me. but everything is good! wish me luck guys!