| • I fucked up a few opportunities tonight at Skully's to pull:
Opp. 1:
Opened two women outside in the smoking area. One of them basically jumps my bones. Jumping all over me right after I open. She was an older cougar type chick. I know this girl is really receptive. I showed her the L.A. handshake. Super compliant and very touchy. So, I decide to bounce her to the d-floor immediately.
On the dancefloor I start to makeout with her. And everythings going well. She brings up that she's married and shows me her ring after a while of making out. I show her my fake marriage ring back and tell her "I won't tell if you don't". More heavy makeout ensues. I grab her ass and sensually touch all over her body. Bite her neck after a bit of making out. Then a switch positions so she's in front grinding on me. Try to go down to finger her. She resists but not before I move my hand away. Overt touch is very short. Test the waters so to speak. Bounced her around to another part of the dancefloor. Then dance with her there. More makeout and spanking. I put my hands underneath her skirt and try to feel her base ass on my palms. She resists but once again not before I pull my hand away. The touch was short. She's still super-turned on. I bounce her after a while of this upstairs. This is where I try to get her to sit on the sofa. She doesn't comply to that. I leave her to go talk to some other girl. I lose sight of her.
Did not pull the trigger on this one.
However, one thing I did do well was bait her to invest by moving her around to many different places in the bar.
Opp. 2:
Met girl outside in smoking area. She was alone. Asked her who she's here with and how she knows them. She said just friends, not with boyfriend etc. i.e. she wanted my dick. L.A. Handshake. A lot of moving around on my part and demonstrating that I'm a touchy feely person. She's talking about smoking weed and asking if I do. I whisper in her ear that she seems like the type of girl who'd go to Bonnarroo. I mention I love music festivals, etc. She says she's the kinda girl who is into the Mountain hiking hippie type stuff. I whisper in her ear that she must be a girl who would do naughty things after climbing to the top of Mount Everest. I also tell her she seems like a really nice girl on the surface, but I detect a serious naughty side underneath. A guy comes into the set, and I say hey whats up to him. He seems friendly. I ask them how they both know each other. She says he is just a friend. My Body is directed towards her and I keep quiet. He takes this as his queue to leave. I think he knew that she was trying to talk to me so he left. I tell her that I think he's a cool guy. She asks me for a smoke, and I say I don't smoke. I tell her that we can go around and ask people that I've already met if they have a smoke. So we approach a girl I already talked to. She says she doesn't have one. But I sit down and talk some more about some stuff like What her plans are for later. She says going to bed and sleeping. I'm thinking ok... logistics are good. I then bounce her again, after asking if she's heard of the Strawberry Field Test. She says no. I tell her I'm tired and that let's sit at a table and talk. I tell her "Come!", and I sit her down at a table and sit with her really close in an adjacent chair. Her hand is in my hand the whole time we're talking.
While we're at this table, I run a few routines on her (s-axis esc.). I disarm a few objections. The Discreteness objection is disarmed by telling her that girls act stupid sometimes and there was a girl who hooked up with me at a party and blabbed around. I think anything that happens between two people should remain between them. Also disarmed the stalker objection saying that the same girl was clingy and stalking me. I told her she doesn't seem like any of those things and that's why I'm talking to her. Told her she seems different from most girls in that she doesn't seem sexually repressed. Talked about how society is corrupt and how girls are judged for being sexual beings. Let her know face up that I know girls are really sexual beings and that they're often hornier than guys, but that they're repressed because of how society judges them for sexual behaviors. She asks me how old I am, I say, "Guess" But then quickly change the subject to Strawberry fields. Here I further exemplify to her saying that my EX-GF taught me this test. She tells me not to talk about Ex-Gf. Obviously, she doesn't like hearing about other girls. Any ways, she's kinda hesitant agreeing to the strawberry analysis. but after the farmer analysis, she agrees. I tell her I think its really cool that she doesn't care what anyone thinks and that she's sexually liberated.
I quickly change the subject so that ASD doesn't kick in. Started to Ignite the fuse immediately after the strawberry fields routine. And here is where the major fuck up occurred, and I was not expecting this. I tell her about me hiking at Hocking hills with my buddy Johnny and that I found an injured panda bear in the woods. He had a cut on his leg. I tell her that I'm only telling her this cuz she's discrete and she won't go around telling people. She's like "What the fuck, why do u care if I tell anyone." I tell her that I'll get evicted if news gets out that I have a baby panda living at my place. She calls bullshit, but I win her over with pics of the panda... Now she asks me to take her to my place and show her the panda. She asks me where I live and if I live around the area. WTF. I tell her that I'm a student at OSU and that I live in a dorm. I'm kinda shocked by her response to my panda bear seed. I'm trying to play it off all cool telling her that I don't know if I should, and that she would go around and blab; I also tell her it wouldn't be a good idea to introduce her to the panda, because she might get her fingers bit. She tests me so hard and I get weaker and weaker, until I just up and get her by the hand and say "Let's go" and try bouncing her out of the club.
Wrong Move.
She loses interest after we get half way through the bar at the door leading back into the d-floor from the smoking patio. While I was leading her, constant objections came up from her saying "No... I'm not going home with you. Just so you know." Also early on, when we were talking at the table, she was trying to test me but I would just ignore her tests. It was obviously on physically between us and conversationally she was pursuing me. But she kept saying stuff like "You're not my type," "I don't like you at all". These were things that she started saying when I started to pull the trigger and leading her out. It very clearly was a sign that I pulled the trigger too early and demonstrated neediness by letting her win the opportunity to come home with me without any effort on her part.
POST-MORTEM ANALYSIS:
When she started urging me that she wants to come home with me and see the panda I should have rejected the offer but still kept it on the table, telling her that I'd love to but I don't feel comfortable bringing a strange girl to my dorm at night. Should have kept conversation flowing for a bit more time, baited her to invest in me further, such as 5-questions game (she buys me drinks/food), she massages my back, etc. Then, once she had invested enough I should've rewarded one of her compliant behaviors by pulling the trigger.
E.G. "You know what? Here we are having a great time, but I still can't help thinking about the injured panda I brought home. I wasn't sure about you a while ago, but you've kinda won me over, so I guess its okay for you to play with the panda. Just please promise me you'll keep it a secret. Let's get outta here"
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