Hey all,

I have this GF since a few months but I feel she is more in control of the relationship than me. I really want to be more dominant but as she already knows me a bit this is kinda hard to execute. Also, she is showing less affection than in the beginning of our relationship. I really want this to change.

Since a month or so I'm showing less dedication, letting her text first etc. but I still have a feeling she takes me for granted. Also, I'm not going to ask her out or kiss her first. Now what more should I do? Break contact for a while? Chat with other girls?

Help is much appreciated.

Have you even had sex with her bro?

Before you can see any significant change in your relationship, you're going to have to examine yourself and change for the best. My friend you have to learn how to become a man in your relationship and take back control. Women love to follow guys who are confident and assertive. The reason why she's treating you like this is because you're not showing her that you're a man and can handle a person like her. You need to try to go down a different road and stop doing the things that's turning her off. It's not so much as not texting and calling as much as it's not appearing clingy, desperate, and sensitive. You almost have to be cocky, but not arrogant. Women love guys who can control the situation and ultimately make good decisions. How often do you make decisions in your relationship where you lead and she follows? It's vital that you take the lead in your relationship and start being proactive instead of reactive. ----- If she's not responding to what your doing now then change it up a little. Go to new restaurants, theme parks, places where she can learn something new. Don't be a boring and routine person because that will destroy your relationship faster that you can say I'm bored, Instead be positive and adventurous. Ultimately, if she still doesn't change then you will know that she's probably not the woman for you and you need to have the courage to let her go because you might be missing out on someone who will treat you like a king. So your challenge is to not be passive aggressive anymore, rather be proactive, adventurous, and fun. I hope this helps a little.

Yes, many times

Give her the good dick

Thanks for your advice. I'm working hard on changing my behaviour already, but what makes it difficult is that she has a bit different image of me right now.

Also, how much attention should I give her? At the moment I'm not initiating texts because I might come off as boring when I do that. However, I'm not sure if this is the right thing to do right now.

Final point of this is that I want her to see and realize I can behave differently, but throughout most days we are only texting and not seeing each other so often.

I've been with girls who give me all kind of attitude, try to make me their lapdog, ect.. Then I drill the spot until she is shaking with pleasure and she becomes my lapdog. At first she wants me to hold her shit and pack the bowl (i did pack the bowl but that was becuase I wanted to blaze lol) but then I drill it and she is all rolled up on my chest like she never wants to leave asking me "are you comfortable", "do you like being with me?" lol lol lol


Other than that, just don't give a fuck what she thinks. You know you are awesome and she is better off with you than with out you so don't put up with her shit. If she isn't texting you or doesn't seem interested, pull away so she can emotional and physically have withdrawals. I was reading a book Sperm Wars the other day and it said something interesting that loosely pertains to this topic and what i'm trying to say. It basically said that when couples have sex regularly the male ejaculatory starts to get less and less. When they spend some time apart and then begin having sex again, the amount of ejaculatory(or maybe it was sperm) increases. Your body and hers get used to each other. Pull away and her body will withdraw from you like a crack addict in rehab. Since you are the one pulling away, the relationship is on your terms, and dominance is restored.

Finally, if you really want to hold your dominance, don't get in a relationship. Not only does it lower testosterone levels (scientifically proven) it makes you her bitch.

Thanks for the advice, but can you be a little bit more specific about this? Like a practical example or so?

What he said was dominate her in bed. Fuck the shit out of her like there is no tomorrow. Make her cum hard and she'll be eating out of the plams of your hand. And that my friend is a true story. Tell your girlfriend you want to role play. Tell her you are the boss and she is the secretary and you need to have a sit down to review her performance. Tell her she is not doing good and for this you have to punish her. After setting the frame for the role, rip her clothes off, pull her hair, spank her and fuck her good! Make her scream your name, call you daddy or ask her "who is in charge" while your poundin her out.

This type of role play subconciously tells her that your dominant annim charge

She will thank you for it later lol

Alright, gonna try this next time

hmmm a practical example? next time you are fucking her stick your finger in her ass or pull her hair.

Master the art of fingering her. I'm not saying you are bad at it but you could probably learn a few things about it. Watch some lesbian porn. Read up on technique. Practice on her, ask her what she likes. If you can be the source of her pleasure she will seek you out. that, my friend, is dominance in disguise.

I like what darkie said about role playing that you are the boss. pure gold for so many different reasons

hmmm a practical example? next time you are fucking her stick your finger in her ass or pull her hair.

Master the art of fingering her. I'm not saying you are bad at it but you could probably learn a few things about it. Watch some lesbian porn. Read up on technique. Practice on her, ask her what she likes. If you can be the source of her pleasure she will seek you out. that, my friend, is dominance in disguise.

I like what darkie said about role playing that you are the boss. pure gold for so many different reasons

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