Hello,

I had a very strange story from my holiday, the last story happened 2 days ago so its pretty new story, I remember everything.

I can tell you it is NOT A BRAG, I even called myself an idiot for it. Just make sure you will read it all you will see.

I took 4*4cl whiskey that night (before and in the party, when I was younger I took like 6dl, so I definetly was not that drunk.) and some energy drink, 5 that day(all day, but most of them I had night. I don't drink that much energy drink usually, but I wanted to be fresh and stuff. You know.). My friends were pussies ,all of them drank for days and everyone went to sleep very early, and the other story may will be told here too(that more of an inner game question with a friend.).
I didn't care them since I wanted to spend my last night in my favoruite club.

So then I headed to a salsa club and I stood in front of the dj's desk(pult?) and I did nothing but stood there, and I made movements with my head and arms. So I wasn't dancing like shit, it was more like a chillout party for me and I was really having a good time but I guess they didn't notice that, I haven't been in that much of my dancing mood. I stood like that and after 10 minutes a girl tried to make eyecontact with me. And I was a fu*ker because I behaved like I didn't even notice her. My thought was that ok, "She's like 6.5 but blonde and I have pretty much time this night, maybe I will have a better opportunity!". Soon after she noticed the strategy didn't work out well, she started to come closer and closer, touching his hair and smiling when looking into my eyes, sometimes I made eye contact with her for 5mp and then broke it like I was not interested at all. In my head: "ok, calm down,she should be a prostitute,no one will do things like that. Theres a lot of 'em in the island. Wait some and you will figure out what to do." She then push her butt into my loans and I didn't do anything so soon she took a short break break when she turned his face to my and smiling then push her butt to me again.This time most of them seemed to notice this, and single guys that had drunk a lot looked at her thinking she was an easy prey (Guy stared me too but no one in a gay manner or at least I hope.) and they approached her several times. She sent them away very rude, she had even showed "fu*k you" to one guy and looked at me and smiled. So girls too noticed this and they started to be closer to me, some of them did like the first blonde,they were touching their hairs and were smiling at me and want to eyecontact and the same shit basically, some of them winked etc. One girl even made out with her boyfriend, and her eyes were open and looked at my while he was kissing her lol. Then a latina(exact my type with black eyes, brown hair. 8/10 lol) came closer and a guy danced with him and then he asked her whether she wanted to go with him home and she said "no I will stay here for a while. Bye". So she was alone. But as you can bet-and win-I did nothing. And this happened again again for 2-3 hours. Even the blonde became more pushy and it created a havoc. I have never had story like this. Maybe 2-3 eyecontact per night, but not this nuts. I changed position went other corner of the room or order a water and after a while some of them found me again and headed to me slowly.

After this happened, the blond left but did it for 2-3 hours, almost constantly. Then I started to think: "its a very big confidence booster, but if you interpreted one of them wrong and approached one of them and maybe she has a BF but wanted some flirting every girl will notice this too and you can forget to get a girl this night and either your confidence will be in the lowest of the last month. Then I was tired and went to my hotel.


So I have 2 question:

1. Can you recommend me something to do? Like reading a book or a video, or anything like that?

2. I have always thought that if a guy go to a club alone and just staying almost in the same position all night with a little motion everyone will think: 'what a creep!'. Si I'm pretty surprised with this night. Maybe I used to party with the wrong friends? Or do I do anything different when I am in their company?


It gaved me some confidence but again I thought of myself for 2 days "pussy!" and soon after I realized I have to do something against it. Because if I will never approach girl I will never fuck and never get the skills that is essencial to have a nice and pretty GF. And I havent gotten laid for 1.5 month, so I was horny as well. But it wasn't the first time when a girl had maken eyecontact with me but they were never so pushy lol.


Lahad

when you are talking about a female it is she/her/hers, not he/his/him.

Thank you sir you are right, and please when you make the first post to the topic don't quote the post and give the guy no chance to correct it.

Anyways, English is not my original language and when I travelled home I got sick from air condition(Outside 26 celsius, inside 16, especially in buses and casino. I am sure 4 days of partying made my immune system weak, last september when I had been there I got this too, and now once again. Next september I wont.) and I have pretty high fever, so my mind is not performing its best. Sorry for it!


I would appreciate any other thoughts!

If she is sticking her ass into your crotch rub your hard cock on her and dance as close as possible. I mean, if she is initiating like that its pretty much a free ticket to grind on her and touch her everywhere( girls still have boundaries though so don't take everything I say too literally) . It helps if you know how to dance. Spin her forward and backward, kiss her neck and realize if you leave her on the dancefloor you probably won't get her back and if you dance with her all night she will eventually leave you. so at just before the hieght of climax motion for her to follow you. Get her number or ask her if she wants to move on to another club. I know english isn't your first language so if this doesn't make sense let me know. Happy gaming

Yes, I know what I should have had to do, but my question is not about that. My oppinion I could do 'anything' and still f*k her brain out.

My Q's:
1. Can you recommend me something to do? Like reading a book or a video, or anything like that?

2. I have always thought that if a guy go to a club alone and just staying almost in the same position all night with a little motion everyone will think: 'what a creep!'. Si I'm pretty surprised with this night. Maybe I used to party with the wrong friends? Or do I do anything different when I am in their company?

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Basic club game outline:
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Changed my life by changing my views:
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Lol fuck you merzk for being a fucking tool bag. And fucking thank you for seeing some value in these articles. Good gaming my friend.

Idk what you did differently. In all honesty standing in one place barely moving is generally not very good game. Maybe though, you made the area you were in your territory. So the girls would leave and when they come back they find you in your area like you own it. Comfortable being by yourself.

When my friends and I go to the club, we act like we are there to see the DJ. Of course we want to fuck every single girl in every position known to man and god, but we don't act like it. We dance around in the front of the crowd and look like we are having a good time. We create the "sweet spot" or so we call it. The sweet spot is the area right in front of the DJ booth but not the front row. It is like the second or 3rd row. We make this our territory. Girls definitely notice us and we find them getting closer and closer to us. I cant remember the last time I actually asked a girl to dance, they usually come up to me and just start grinding on me. I think this might be why you had success that nigh Lahad. Maybe you didn't come across as being there for the girls, just the SPAM, and this set you apart from the other guys.


My advice, bring a fun buddy next time. Find the sweet spot of the crowd. Look like you are having fun - dance around with glow sticks or crazy sunglasses, talk to everyone in the sweet spot, not just the girls, make the sweet spot your territory. If a girl enters the sweet spot, assume she is there for you and make a move to dance with her. Remember this is your territory. Right before the climax of the dancing, take her hand and lead her to a quiter part of the room. Get her number or kiss her. This is now the climax.