So I'm messaging this girl on Tinder, she liked me, as you have to do on that app.

We talk a little bit, I get to know her.

I invite her out to my town (about 15 miles away from her).

Her response is, "Me come to you?"

My initial, kneejerk response is that this is a shit test, and I need to hold my frame that I want her to come out here, and if she isn't interested, oh well, the hell with her (which would be sad, she's really freaking hot).

Any choice responses you guys can think of? I think we can agree that me bitching out at this point would lead to less attraction on her part.

"Not old enough to drive?"

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I would have replied "yes"
Too little info yet to know for sure it it's even a test.

The phrasing, to me, suggests a test.

It doesn't come off as, "that's too far for me", or "I don't understand what you mean"

To me it reads as, "lol, you expect me to visit you boy? Do you know who I am?"

I merely responded with, "Yes, of course."

She then said, "Why can't you just come to me?"


I may try to play this so I just go to her apartment instead of to a bar. More conducive for what we both want anyway.

Now sounds like a test.

You could suggest meeting in the middle.

Meeting in the middle is a bad idea - then it's so much further for me to pull back to either apartment. It's all driving distance.

My thoughts are either in town here (where I can literally walk her to my apartment), or at her house, where things would obviously go decently enough.

How fucking hard does this need to be?

Tell her your taking turns, if she's worth it!

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