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 Post subject: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 7:16 am 
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Alright guys so like the title of the thread mentions, I just had the most awkward date. So basically I've been going out with a couple of girls here and there to places like entertainment centers(ie dave n busters), bowling, park, etc(Keep in mind im 20 and can't drink or whatever).. I usually play the cocky funny(Love david deangelo) attitude throughout the whole time and have managed to at least k-closed on all dates(would be a bummer if I didn't at least do that lol). So I met this one girl off of POF and we started talkin and I got her number about a month ago. Last week I went to go see her outside her apartment(lives with mom) and we were chatting eating ice cream whatever. But for some reason the environment seemed extremely tense and awkward. I would try to be cocky funny(which clearly worked during the texts because she started to get sexual and stuff) but she would just not really start any conversation or give me any IOI's. So basically nothing happened that night, we just hugged awkwardly she said she would text me later and I left. I know it was my fault because I didn't do any kino whatsoever until the hug. But whatever. She texted me the next day and its as if we click with each other through text but not when we hangout. So a week later(tonight) she texts me and says if I'm free and that we should go watch a movie.(Now I personally HATE going to the movies as a date because its like you can't really do anything with the person) But anyway I said yes and so then I picked her up and the whole ride towards the movies I was trying to start a conversation and do cocky funny stuff(I know I should have started the kino) but she would just kinda laugh and then it was dead silence like for a 1 minute. Everytime I tried to start something she would just give a cold flat out answer and not keep going. We got the movies and I was pretty mad at myself. So whatever we watched the movie and nothing happeend. After the movie I just drove her back home and tried to hold her hand and she would move it. So I got pretty pissed and simply just took her back home and she got out the car. She said "Awkard car hug" and I said "Lame-0 thats it?" and she punched my leg and left. (I feel like a total loser as I'm typing this) So basically that's it.
Now, I know that I need major inner game help. I thought I was really getting the hang of this pua thing but have realized that I know absolutely nothing since this date was a total disaster. Now, I don't know if it was completely my fault? Or if she is shy and socially awkard as well? The only reason I think might hint that she might be socially awkward and that it's not entirely my fault is because she's into that manga, comic, reading books type of thing. (Not using that as an excuse for my screw ups tonight).
Right now I feel as if this date just screwed up all the past succesful ones I've had lol
So basically I need some insight right now on what you guys think I need some major help on.
Please help!
Every opinion is greatly appreciated


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 Post subject: Re: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 7:37 am 
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She sounds more awkward than you do. I'd keep behaving consistently without letting her weird behaviour bother you.


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 Post subject: Re: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 7:47 am 
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She sounds more awkward than you do. I'd keep behaving consistently without letting her weird behaviour bother you.
After she left tonight she said "Ill text you later" and I said "You do that(sarcastically)" I really hope she doesn't text me anymore and I move on. If she does text me or asks to hang out again I feel like telling her that we don't click and that its perfectly fine. That we should just be friends (I obviously have no intention of being friends with her) and move on. And at the same time I feel like I have all the blame since its up to me to trigger attraction or not. Maybe I'm overthinking this way too much lol


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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 8:13 am 
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She sounds more awkward than you do. I'd keep behaving consistently without letting her weird behaviour bother you.
After she left tonight she said "Ill text you later" and I said "You do that(sarcastically)" I really hope she doesn't text me anymore and I move on. If she does text me or asks to hang out again I feel like telling her that we don't click and that its perfectly fine. That we should just be friends (I obviously have no intention of being friends with her) and move on. And at the same time I feel like I have all the blame since its up to me to trigger attraction or not. Maybe I'm overthinking this way too much lol
She's getting to you man. You gotta play it cool either way and if you want to forget her you can whilst leaving a positive memory of you in her head. In case you change your mind.


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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 8:18 am 
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She sounds more awkward than you do. I'd keep behaving consistently without letting her weird behaviour bother you.
After she left tonight she said "Ill text you later" and I said "You do that(sarcastically)" I really hope she doesn't text me anymore and I move on. If she does text me or asks to hang out again I feel like telling her that we don't click and that its perfectly fine. That we should just be friends (I obviously have no intention of being friends with her) and move on. And at the same time I feel like I have all the blame since its up to me to trigger attraction or not. Maybe I'm overthinking this way too much lol
She's getting to you man. You gotta play it cool either way and if you want to forget her you can whilst leaving a positive memory of you in her head. In case you change your mind.
I agree man. But either way why do yiu think shes acting the way she does? I mean the girl has game through the phone but in person shes like so awkward.


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 Post subject: Re: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 8:44 am 
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Relax man, they can't all go perfect.

I find the cocky funny thing works over texts and in groups. When i'm 1-on-1 with a girl I try to keep it romantic.

Say I meet a girl online. I'll generally act cocky-funny and alternate with sweet-sincere while online/text. When I get her alone I switch to alpha male and romantic with hints of cocky-funny.

You are being kind of amateur about this man. It is one girl who wasn't feeling you and she sounds like a drag anyway. Do me a favor and reach down your pants and grab your swinging nuts . You're welcome.


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 Post subject: Re: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 2:54 pm 
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She sounds kind of on the fence about you to me.

I wouldn't invest any more effort in her... You're not getting shit in return (not even a kiss) - fuck that... move on and game someone else. She may come back to you.


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 Post subject: Re: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 3:40 pm 
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Relax man, they can't all go perfect.

I find the cocky funny thing works over texts and in groups. When i'm 1-on-1 with a girl I try to keep it romantic.

Say I meet a girl online. I'll generally act cocky-funny and alternate with sweet-sincere while online/text. When I get her alone I switch to alpha male and romantic with hints of cocky-funny.

You are being kind of amateur about this man. It is one girl who wasn't feeling you and she sounds like a drag anyway. Do me a favor and reach down your pants and grab your swinging nuts . You're welcome.
Thanks for the insight and motivation as well. What you said about acting in groups and 1 on 1 really makes sense!


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 Post subject: Re: Awkward date
PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 3:41 pm 
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She sounds kind of on the fence about you to me.

I wouldn't invest any more effort in her... You're not getting shit in return (not even a kiss) - fuck that... move on and game someone else. She may come back to you.
I know I didnt even kclose thats why I was pretty confused. Appreciate it though!


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