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Well I'd say your first mistake was texting her rather than calling. It's just better to call but I can explain why if you really want me to.
what this guys says (which is really good advice) and not being so pushy. Did you take time to ask her what she did that day? The first country she would travel to if she had a plane ticket to anywhere in the world? You talk about making her "commit" like a date is a car and you are a used car salesman. Take a moment to build some rapport with her. Ask her dumb shit like what is her favorite kind of flower, if she likes mustaches, get her to talk about her dad and childhood. blah blah blah. Ask her what she likes to do when she isn't working and going to school and then try and do something similar with her. Though, she probably doesn't have a social life so you will end up choosing a destination anyway. She is a nerd-virgin with no social life so she is probably shy and uneasy about going out with you. Just be cool, lead the way, but at her pace.