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PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2014 6:54 pm 
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Thanks for the response guys.

So I met this girl at a lounge about a week ago and we hit it off pretty good. I had her engaged in conversation for about for hours, we danced and I had good kino going on. This girl is basically a 9/10 in my scale and its nothing new to me in those terms, but as I got to know her through the night I found out she was a virgin and that this was one of very few times she goes out. I also found out through her friends that she is really into school and she's head of the student council at her college. (Now that we have some background info here's the problem). The night I met her I got her number, after the night 2 days went by and I sent her a text to go out to the lounge again she said she'd love to but it was a school night. 3 more days go by after that. She tweets that she has never been on a real date. I thought right away that was a good opener for another attempt. I text her on a Friday and invite her out again. She seem really enthusiastic about it but when I tried to set up a time she said she worked on weekends. Its been a week since then and I've had do contact. How do I get her to commit, I've never dealt with a "Good Girl".


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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 2:48 am 
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Well I'd say your first mistake was texting her rather than calling. It's just better to call but I can explain why if you really want me to.

Actually that might be all you need to do. Just call her, and get her to commit on the phone. If she doesn't pick up or you actually do set up a date and she flakes, she might just not be that into you.


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PostPosted: Mon May 12, 2014 5:09 am 
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Well I'd say your first mistake was texting her rather than calling. It's just better to call but I can explain why if you really want me to.
what this guys says (which is really good advice) and not being so pushy. Did you take time to ask her what she did that day? The first country she would travel to if she had a plane ticket to anywhere in the world? You talk about making her "commit" like a date is a car and you are a used car salesman. Take a moment to build some rapport with her. Ask her dumb shit like what is her favorite kind of flower, if she likes mustaches, get her to talk about her dad and childhood. blah blah blah. Ask her what she likes to do when she isn't working and going to school and then try and do something similar with her. Though, she probably doesn't have a social life so you will end up choosing a destination anyway. She is a nerd-virgin with no social life so she is probably shy and uneasy about going out with you. Just be cool, lead the way, but at her pace.


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