| She is probably not interested at all, and every little thing you do that she can interpret as IOIs will probably make her even more distant. That's why she doesn't respond to your chat. Any "accidental touches" is also too obvious, and very creepy indeed.
You have not read The Art of Seduction, have you? If you have, you know the following:
1. Seducing someone who is already in love is impossible. If she is happy with her husband, you can forget about seducing her.
2. Seduction requires pain. Remind her about things that she is not happy about in her life, and do so in an extremely subtle way, only suggesting things on an subconscious level. You need to seem like someone who can solve her problems and satisfy her desires, without saying it out loud.
3. You need to plant the idea of having sex with you in her mind. But again, you need to do so at a subconscious level.
If you want to seduce this girl, get ready for a loooooooong game. I think we are talking months here at a minimum, maybe years, if ever. First you need to become her (and her husband's) friend, make them trust you. Then you need to keep a small sexual vibe in the air at all times, staying withing socially acceptable levels. You can do this by giving her "innocent" compliments in front of her husband. You can talk to him about his wife as if she is not around (but when she is indeed standing very close), saying things like "with such a beautiful wife you must be happy". You can even compliment her for her clothes or whatever, "wow, such a wonderful dress! you look beautiful in it!". One important point here is that you never ever expect anything in return from her, and that you make it clear that you are only friendly.
About kino... You should indeed touch her, and you should do so in a friendly non-sexual way. Touch her shoulder when you want her attention. Put your arm around her shoulders when you want to show appreciation, but don't keep it there for more than a few seconds. If sitting down, you can even put your hand on her knee to show her some appreciation. But again, remove your hand after a few seconds.
When you have come that far, she will like you. A lot. But she will still be faithful to her husband as long as she is happy with him. Then you just have to wait... Wait until you can see even the smallest little wound in their relationship, and use it to your advantage.
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