There's a girl at the gym that I flirt with heavily at the gym, and she does it in return.
I know she has a bf, but she is sending very clear signs that she wants me to ask her out. She has never once mentioned the bf. In fact when the conversation starts heading that way, she's quick to change subjects, making it obvious she doesn't want me to ask if she has a boyfriend. She also likes to keep bringing up the fact that we live really close to each other.
Today she kept asking which bar I'll be watching the hockey game tonight, making it pretty clear she wanted to come meet me to watch.

Now, I never added her on facebook, but she gave me her name and I found her on there. She has some pics up with her boyfriend. I was going to message her the name of the bar that I'll be at, but is that a little weird to do, since I can obviously now see she has a bf. Should I just keep our conversations at the gym and ask her out there?

some girls just like to feel desired by men, and those girls will wait until you ask her out and be like "oh, im sorry! i cant, i have a boyfriend, but thanks its really flattering bla bla"

in my opinion the best thing in this case, as you dont know whats going on, is to let her lead. if she gets closer, dont get closer, just let her come to you, and show that you are confortable and create the space by holding your stand and creating a space for her to be able to throw herself onto you without looking like a slut. let her be able to say "it just happened", so when she's close enough to kiss, do take the lead back and kiss her.

if the reacts its her being the weird one, so its less likely that she will, and you will effectively ruin a relationship, so be careful, having no morals only attracts women that dont have self respect. use the advice with care.

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