hey guys, getting pissed off with my girlfriend talking about zac effron all the time, i dont show her im getting pissed off, i pretend not to care and would say something like yeah hes hot back or tell her to private message him on twitter, but even after doing this she still keeps on and makes me feel un appreciated especially given that she is calling him hot all the time but i never get a compliment once. the other thing that annoys me is that i don't go on about hot girls to her because i know she wouldn't like that just the same as i do, but the fact that she still does it gets to me. what should i do? do i carry on the way i am? do i talk about hot celebrity girls back to her to get her jealous? and what ways can i demonstrate higher value in the relationship without making it seem as if im playing games

Seriously who gives a fuck....its celebrities she is never going to meet. If anything I would lightly make fun of her about it. But really I would just brush it off for what it is....nothing.

You shouldn't be jealous of this. You just shouldn't.

I can see how it would be annoying for her to constantly go on about this but if it's once in a while it's fairly natural. Honestly, she shouldn't exactly be talking about this with you... It's weird and the only reason I can think for it is to get something out of you, as in make you feel insecure which in turn makes her feel more secure being with you(Read: Putting you in your place). The best way to address this is just to bluntly say "I'm bored of this. Go talk to your friends about it." Use that as a form of punishment. Don't react to it, don't joke about it and don't encourage her by being phased. Simply state where she can go with that talk and show absolutely zero interest in the topic, so much so it falls on deaf ears. Eventually she'll be conditioned not to mention it around you because she gets no reinforcement for doing so, instead she's punished by being ignored.

See it for what it is... A crush on someone she'll never have the opportunity to meet or date... IE: it's harmless.

If this bothers you - start telling her how hot other girls are. Have some fun with it and transition it into "you'd make out with her, right?"

Ok how old are you. I am guessing she can't be more than 20. In which case this is basically what girls do.

But you can tell her that you don't care how hot he is and she can discuss this with her girlfriends because you are not interested. If she doesn't stop then you can start discussing with her how good you think porn stars are giving blowjobs

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She's either dropping hints for you to look more like him ie work out more

Or

It's ok for you to agree on a celebrity crush you are allowed to hypothetically cheat
And you're allowed one too

Or

Just tell her it pisses you off!!! I heard once how a couple made a contractual agreement on what's allowed and what's not! I'm not saying put pen to paper and get her to sign it but, I am saying by outlining what's allowed and what's not or what you don't like, then both parties know the rules!

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I'm 18 and she's 17, going with the tell her its boring me thing, should work aha cheers guys! I know it's normall but I don't like the way she talks about him, makes her seem unfaithful