hi puas,
just want to ask a few questions about the pick up tv show keys to the vip
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEp6AESr ... 36&index=5
1. those guys on the show makes pickup looks so easy. i know some of the contestants do have game. but most of the stuff they do is pretty afc. they usually open by really simple complements. almost all of them try to get girls drinks. and they beg for numbers! what surprise me is that they do get results. okay phone numbers could be just flake. but these guys get kiss close and some of them can bring girls back home for a SNL without much effort.
here comes the question, does it depend on the girl/luck? do girls live in different states/country respond differently to pickup? i am not sure if it's my limiting belief. Or a lot of men's limiting belief. some of us tend to think girls living in our own state/country are harder to approach. i live in the uk. people always tell me girls are easier to talk to in america, because there are more abundance of good looking girls in the states. guys could just NEXT them if they play hard to get. i really want to make sure it is not my limiting belief.
2. it's usually very hard to talk in a club because it is noisy. i can only hold a very simple conversation. it's impossible to run the cube in a noisy club. it seems to me that the clubs in the show are less noisy. it could be just my misperception i dunno.
i think i have hit a sticking point. i usually try direct game on the dancefloor. it's easier to open by using direct method in a noisy environment. but girls lost interest very quickly once i started complimenting them.
i do talk to girls in the smoking area, but the better looking ones are usually more abundant on the dance floor. i like using traditional mystery method in the smoking area. i stay in the set longer by using MM. but the conversation can lead to nowhere. and i seldom force myself to get a no. if the girl doesn't seem to be interested.
for guys with consistence results, please give me some advices
p.s. i know nobody uses MM anymore. my way of pickup still has the structure of MM (opening -->DHV-->no.close/k close). i seldom use canned materials. i use my personal stories as DHVs. if the girl responds to my DHVs and kinos, i would just go for the kiss i wouldn't even go for the number.