So I've been told that writing FRs improves game....I've also been reading this book -- "Nine Ball" (Jeffy Alen of RSD) where he credits his diligence to writing nightly field reports to his improvement in game. Anyway, thus far, yeah I've known about game blah blah, but fvck, recently I've been feeling that its one of my life's areas where I am an underachiever. Following are "insights" I've obtained from my afc experience from the last few nights out, and things I want to improve. Please let me know if I'm on the right track! (thank you in advance, fellas ) My next FRs will be more event-specific, but this "general" one is sort of a foundation to things I must do to improve my game;

1. I need to cut down drinking or being high when going out!
2. INTENT -- I'm ok with approaching and hooking chicks (I think) but even when they show interest, I pussy out and don't push it anywhere. Happened last night, a group of three hot chicks were all over me at this house afterparty I went to. I was stuck at the attract phase...they ended up making out with other dudes lol. Kino and all that stuff is something I need to work on, hard.
3. More field time -- this is vital. I've also realized that for some reason I'm scared to game when with friends. Maybe I should not give a fvck, or start going out alone.
4. INTENT again -- last night, despite my fvckups at this house party of not taking things to the next level with girls, my roommate and I ended up bringing home two girls. The one I liked ended up passing out on my couch because she thought I didn't like her. wtf
5. Touch -- yeah kino whatever. I've realized that I reach hook point much easier when I get frisky with the chicks (in a non-creepy way of course), but like I said earlier, something happens and I cut down on it a few minutes into the interaction, leaving the girls confused as to whether or not I like them. Maybe I need to work on "qualification"
6. Inner game issues -- see...the issue is... I consider myself this hairy, out-of-shape bear who needs to work hard to get pussy. Yet recently, I've been getting told multiple times by girls that I'm cute or whatever. Maybe a brushup on a my self-esteem wouldn't hurt me
7. Cut down on ASSHOLE-MODE -- yeah I'll admit, I come off an asshole when talking to most strangers (according to my friends), especially girls. This is a problem, as I realized last night. I just do it to follow then RSD gurus on the "busting balls" philosophy, but it eventually inevitably leads to girls thinking I don't like them.

There are other things too I want to write about and work on...but I must go now (this hangover isn't helping -- any lifehacks to deal with hangovers effectively wouldbe appreciated -- just not "drink water before you passout--because when I'm blackout drunk, I dont fvcking know when I pass out!). These FRs will keep coming!

Peace,

Nice man this sounds like A great start.

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1) Set a 3-drink limit when you go out, and try to space them out (say 2 lemonades/energy drinks, then a beer, then same again) I've been doing this a lot more recently and it's allowing me to be much sharper when gaming.

7) The thing I don't like about RSD, is it almost seems like they encourage you to just be an asshole. You can be a nice guy and still attract girls, you don't need to constantly bust their balls; I mean sure do it some of the time, but going OTT is just unnecessary.

Hangover cure - Bacon. Lots and lots of bacon. If you can, get some eggs, sausage, baked beans, toast and hash browns (aka. the full english breakfast) it is the ULTIMATE hangover cure.

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It sounds like you're have a clear understanding of what kino is for, you just don't seem to be executing it properly. Don't be robotic about it and have it consume your mind while you're talking to the girl (not sure what she's saying but I know that in 20 seconds I'm going to force myself to touch her shoulder and then quickly draw my hand back...).

If I were you I would (with extreme reason and caution, don't go overboard) prolly just focus on kino testing for a bit. I mean without the concept of hooking up in your mind. The next 3-10 girls should just be for kino experimentation; they're apparently walking out on you over and over again so don't be afraid to kino-test cause you're going to lose them (same result that you're hoping to change). And notice when a girl kino's you. You don't mind right? Most of us usually like it and get excited -> sign of their interest. Watch some kino escalation videos.

And the asshole thing: I personally disagree with it. If that's your personality then that's fine (don't change who you are). But if you're actively trying to be an asshole, it won't work cause you'll be out of character at times and girls will sense something is wrong. Also, girls want the pretty cool guy; just 1 that kino-escalates eventually.

Thank you all for the input. I appreciate the tips on "3-drink limit" and "kino-testing". Also, bacon! Yes, I tried it this morning; bacon is fvcking great!

Now comes my new FR from last night;

Beauties and Whores:

Fvck sugar-coating shit -- I went out last night and did some chode-like and some pretty cool stuff. Was supposed to game sober, but ended up drinking a ton of whisky -- even threw up slightly while brushing my teeth this morning!
Anyway, I digress...let's start with the whores; I went to club One with a bunch of friends around 10.30 -- till about 12.15 or so, approach anxiety or whatever bullshit kept me from approaching anyone -- plus there weren't many attractive chicks till midnight rolled around. My first seduction target were a pair of chicks who looked wayyy hotter from behind; when I saw them from front, they turned out older and not-so-skinny lol. Anyway, I decided to say fvck-it and started talking some crap.The conversation took a downward spiral when they decided to use (for booze). One of the girls, a fake-blonde, told me shit like "you look like a gentleman, not a boy. Gentlemen buy drinks for girls". For some reason, I did end up buying them a round after getting them to "show me a trick" (they lamely kissed each other, and then the blonde pecked me on the cheek). A total disaster, if you ask me, pickup-wise. I acted all chodey for the most part, Looking back, it makes sense -- before I approached them, I saw a bunch of other dudes try, but they got blown out hard. These chicks, despite not being hot, were bitches! When I talked to them, while they didn't immediately shoo me away, they basically started treating me like a chode from the first minute. Well, now I know how to deal with this type next time.

Now to the beauty -- after shit-talking myself for my chodey move with the boozing whores, I went to the bar upstairs at the club and spotted a lone wolf. A hot Dominican! I immediately went up to her and got introduced -- turns out she was their with a bunch of people I already know. So while they didn't cockblock, I knew I couldn't fvck up hard -- so after some chitchat about our mutual love for Dominican and indian food, I number-closed the girl. Texted her this morning nice to meet you last night blah blah...no response yet, so this better not be a flake.

So those are the only two important interactions from last night, from what I remember. I did talk to a few other chicks but it didn't go anywhere.
Notes to self:
1. Make the intent clear early on
2. Touch!
3. Maybe bring back some asshole-mode -- I cut it down completely yesterday, but also watched initial attraction fizzle out quickly as a result. When I'm in my asshole-mode, the attraction last longer in my experience

As always, I would appreciate your input on whether I'm on the right track or something major is still amiss...Thank you

So I was doing homework and stuff last night around 9.30 a friend showed up with a bottle (Three Olives Coconut Water flavored Vodka -- its delicious, try it!). Before I knew it, a few more people showed up with a few more bottles and we had a party going. Ended up going to One in downtown -- everything was great at this point, or so I thought, then some wierd shit happened. I lost all the friends I'd went with as soon as we reached One...how, I do not know. About 20 mins in, as I was walking around the place, I found one of my friends and he immediately dragged me into a set he was already working on. I winged him good and the set was going fine, yet I didn't really feel like I wanted that girl, and as I was about to eject, some fvcker cockblocked me. I was about to tool him to shame in front of the girls but this dude was from my univ, so I felt bad or shit and didn't. Instead, like a chode, I left. Not much time probably passed after but my next memory was eating at subway with these two chicks I know from univ...then somehow I ended up home.

Lessons learned:
1. Drunktexting is a bad idea (however, the girls I ended up eating with told me this morning that they found me because of my drunk texts, so it's prolly not always a bad idea!)
2. I need to stop being afraid of kino (any tips on this, please let me know.)
3. Don't drink the cheap shit (of the various bottles I drank from last night, two were cheap rum and vodka -- I attribute my blackout to that)
4. I need to stop going to places where many of my friends/acquaintances go (for some reason, when a lot of people I know are around, my game gets fvcked -- again, if you guys know of a good way to deal with this, let me know!)

That's all for now, got to go.

-Peace,
Athu

P.S. I also need to find ways to deal with cockblocks without getting extreme.

For cockblocks, unfortunately a lot of the time, extreme is the only thing that'll work; how you define extreme though is up to you, I dealt with one the other night by putting the girls hand on my dick as she was literally about to kiss the CB, that reminded her I was there without me saying anything then I just pretty much lead her away.
With your situation, when you considered stopping that guy from robbing you, you should have. Don't let some chump that still thinks he's the coolest kid in school walk all over you like that, be a boss and take your girl!! Saying "I wasn't really that into her actually" is a bullshit excuse you're using to justify not doing something about it, it's easier to just not bother. But even if you genuinely weren't that into her, you were winging your friend, a good wing knows when to take one for the team. If it'd been me talking to the troll under the bridge and some guy comes to wreck the set, it's my job as a good wingman to deflect him back off into the crowd, because he could make the girl have a bad time if he has shit game, then she'll pull her friend away from your wing!!

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Hmm, good advice. Yeah, I agree, looking back I should've not let that chode take away the chick; I'm going to stick to being extreme from now on; prolly not putting the girl's hand on my dick while that other dude is there kind of extreme, but I will certainly tool the guy when need be without worrying. Thanks! Will keep you guys updated on what happens this weekend,