There's this girl I like, she's not a 10 like an 8. Anyways, I would choose her over a 10 anytime because I like her personality, which I've met allot of women, but I like hers the best. I met her at my store, we talked. Then 2 days later we had a couple of beers and it was fun. We texted a couple of times, the next couple of days, nothing too long. Just kept it short but sweet. Anyways I skipped texting her a day (yesterday) and today she came by my store (she lives really close) but I was busy. Should I text her to meet up? Or ignore her for another day and ask her to meet up tomorrow? I feel like I should ignore her so she wonders what I am doing and not to seem needy or chasing her and that I have a life (which I do) . what do you guys think? I really like this girl.

OK dude. That's cool you got some progress with a girl you really like - definitely definitely be careful about seeming too keen. I gamed my first proper 10 last summer, and it came through a lot of resisting the urge to text too much.

BUT it also happened because I made sure I was different to all the other guys. I wasn't just 'lets meet up for a drink', 'lets go to the cinema' - I've signed up to groupon (gives you loads of deals for shit) and I saw in my town there was a cocktail making class for two in a cocktail bar at about 7pm (so pre-drinks) for 25 quid! It was a deal, and its cool. It stands out! You've got to be different to everyone else!

You can't afford a cocktail making class I hear you say?! well, my other favourite day-date is invite her to go tree climbing. Its physical, fun, and you can guarantee no one else has invited her to do it - and always room for some incidental kino.

great advice, yeah I have been resisting the texts. So it sounds like I'm doing good so far and I think by her coming over, she chased me a little right? I will just text her tomorrow and ask her on an outing, like tree climbing, or feed some ducks lol.

she might have chased you a little, but you never know - if she lives nearby, she might have just been popping in. I wouldn't read too much into that. But yeah, get some interesting date ideas and you'll always stand out.

She did I think, because she went there early, I wasn't there, so she came back a little later when I was going to be there. Also, just ignore her again for today meanwhile I think of a cool thing to do right? We already hung out at my store the first time for like 3 hours and had a beer the second time for about 3 hours too. Just trying to get the third, not date, but hangout again.

3 hours + 3 hours + how many more hours? Gotta make a move soon dude, invite her back to yours to watch a movie or something (or my personal favourite - bake a cake (go and get the ingredients with her - its really fun)

I have been putting moves, and she knows my intentions. But now I know she's making me chase her, which I do play into a little, not too much. I would say the perfect amount. It seems like we are cool for now, since she knows what I want and we are still talking. But I think she's making me work for it, so once I get it. It increases her chances of me staying. Which I would. She is an interesting person. Thanks for your help through out this endeavor dude.