part one: intro, the start

Hi there,

first some basic information.
im 22, 1.85 weight around 113kg im a bodybuilder, im a kind person sometime's to kind.

so i am chatting with this girl from my school now for like 3 month's now she's 21 and she is a mother but the dad of the child left her. she lives on herself with her kid and her little brother of 14 y/o her father lives somewhere else and here mother lives in another land. so its a girl that has been trough alot.

I really like this girl "she is from turkish" and we went on the first date about 2,5 weeks a go, went to the movies and it was all good and we kissed after the movie we went to have a milkshake and the we kissed some more and then i take her to her place and i went home. for me its not about getting her in to bed, i really like her and want her to be my girl.

i hate it that i only speak with her on SPAM or facebook whatever, i want to see her in real.

so now she was sick for a week after our date so i couldn't ask her out, but we still texting and talking alot and when she was better i asked i she want to see a movie next friday and she said yes then that date didn't happen because her family came by and she cant say: you cant come i go see a movie with some guy.

now i dont want to be to demanding you know. i dont want to push her away by asking and asking.

so you read the story, what is the best way to ask her on a second date, i cant go by her place because she dont want that her kid get used to someone and than that person disepears if it wont workout.

how would you act in my situation, just wait until she brings it up? of do i have to ask it. how should you ask it. please give me some tips advice. and sorry for the bad bad english.

peace out.

Part 2: what i did.
So i start talking again to her and were are now talking very long, she even stayed up al nite when i couldnt sleep "use xtc on a party" she just stayed up and we text msg for 2 hours its was a very nice talk haha

so 2 days later ""today" i asked her to go see a movie with me (again) and she said yes "im very happy" so now i just hope she dont canceld this one!

part 3: what now?
Oke so now this happens, as i told every thing went wel, we talk alot and after i dindt spoke to here and she send the IOI's we talked again, and it went even better as bevore. so i asked het again to what a movie at my place after she let me down and she said yes. then i thought oke maby she is shy and she cancel again if we watch home so I choose a movie at the theather from one that is from her faforite maker "to show her that i pay attention if she tells me somthing"

she said that, thats so sweet of me and the she's looking forward to it. so i hope that took the pressure away of the shyness.

now her mothers b-day was comming up and she was planning this for like 1,5month ago so i know that see was busy with that. the party lasted 2dags and nights "yesterday and the day before that" and today is one day after that b-day.

we would go tonight to the movie theather so we talkt today and se said first: im a little bit tierd from the partys, i will go there if i can hold my eyes open blabla ect.

then later see says: i'm really to tierd, my eyes are closing the hole time. i cant go to the movies with you. im sorry

now i really dont know what to say: the reason seems legit to me, but i did not react to what see says last.
i cant think straight now, and im a little bit mind fucked.

if see didnt want to go, why still talk, why the IOI's ect ect. what is your opinion? and what would you say on that last thing.

help me out, still like this girl and i dont know if i have to continue this or not "she is from turkish"

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Vlad can I have your opinion, please help me out.

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Oke so i was upset and little bit mad. So i did not talk to her, then again she still liking everything i post on the social networks.... So it was 01:00 and i post another thing, bang 2 sec later she liked it so i think: fuck it i dont have her so what is there to lose so i texting het at 01:00 just like we always talk but i make some jokes about she skipped me and she says that she was sorry blablaba and then she asked me when i come work-out with het at her gym.. So thats a good thing that the invite comes from her even that it is somthing small like hitting the gym. But now I kissed het at the theather but that is a long time ago like 3 weeks now -.-

And I dont want to get friendzoned, first i see het at school tomorrow and then i guess 2 days later we go to the gym, and the day after that. Its het b-day that she is not celebrating she said.

Soo what can I do to not become her friend but make it better as boyfriend.
She is into muscle guy and im the biggest guy from my age where we live and from our school so that a good thing

Greetz

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