I should probably start with telling a little something about me, I an 18 year old student and I'm in a wheelchair, it was never a problem to me until i realized i'm way over weight so I decided to lose some of it and I lost 35kg don't really know how much is that in lbs :p anyways after I made this happen I decided to become better me, I picked up scuba diving, started making movies... But my problem is I can no the guy that is in center of attention, people always seem to over rule me so I don't have many friends and all of that is influencing my game, I just don't dare to approach girls, i alway start thinking that no girl will be with a handicapped guy and that eventually influences all other aspects of my live, I care way to much about others will think about me. So, I was hoping any of you have any advice how to change my way of thinking and my life style.

Thanx

well your problem is same problem as everyone have, you bound before society rules, your inner perception or mindset is effecting on your body language that projects insecurity, lack of dominance, lack of leading.
you must understand, that your perception of inner you, were programmed by society, and therefore its limiting you look at yourself as a by product, and therefore you shutting yourself from doing something, cause you believe that you are weaker mentally then anyone else, you think they will turn you down when you will try to be better, and that's why they do.
just change your mindset, start think as you better then anyone, don't let people effect on you and keep growing.

good luck
~Vlad

Look up Nick Vuijic. The guy has no limbs, and has a wife. One of the most confident dudes I've ever met. He has lots of inspirational videos for everyone, not just handicapped people. Open your mind because that's the only thing that can truly limit you.

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Thanx mates, I'm trying to get that mindset but I keep shutting my selfe down.

start training it, in each conversation with your friends.

Should i just try to over rule them?

do whatever goes to your mind, for example if are with people, and some of them interrupting you while you are talking, just tell the guys: "wea wea wait, hold on" then you finish your speech and stop, sub-consciously you are establishing your control, which gonna raise your confidence.