Hey guys.

Was out sarging last night and saw a group of 3 HB6.5/7s. I approached the group with an opinion opener and entered a good discussion whilst giving a slight cold shoulder to the HB 7 i was after. Decided to try and isolate the HB 7 with the 5-line routine and sure enough it worked.

As we headed to the bar to get a drink we continued our conversation. I felt like I was getting good IOIs (Touching me, Squeezing hand, Laughing and Asking questions about me) so I decided to attempt the *close (I live in London but was out in Bristol so a #close wouldn't have been necessary). I decided to go simple and use the Mystery Method *Close.

"Would you like to kiss me?" - Me
"No" - HB 7
"you sure wrecked a moment, I bet your previous BFs must have really hated that about you..." - Me.

I thought I executed it fairly well as she was smiling and our conversation carried on. I know I should have attempted another *close but I wasn't sure how to approach it after she'd already said no the first time. Instead we ended parting ways without anything.

Anyone got any advice on how to *close after the first rejection? Mystery suggests you should try again and show persistence but I didn't want to seem like I was all over her.

Thanks

Shuffles

You didn't get her number? If not, you are going to be a loser.

The whole " would you like to kiss me?" is lame in my opinion.

It's a bit out dated. It works when the girl is very into you.

Mystery would only use that when he knows the chick is into him. You're clearly new to this so just learn it as lesson until next time...

If you were to look at her in a sexy way like you wanna kiss her:



Much more effective in my opinion ^ and because it's a non verbal, She can't really reject it verbally. You will see her back off a bit if she is not ready for it and then you go back to being social or whatever but she won't run away as abruptly as she did.

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She lived in Bristol whilst I'm in London. I didn't want her number as it would have been pointless having it as I went home the next day.



Thanks for the advice I'll be using that in the future

Last week, I met a girl early in the night , got her number but she was with her friends , so I text her and tolde to meet me later , so she booticalled me and she left her friend's and met me later.

ALWAYS GET THE NUMBER, regardless of location.

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