I have met this girl online, we see each other a lot for a month. Get along great have hours of sex multiple times a day. Massage each other, cook together, she has paid for me on several occasions, her friends love me. blah blah blah
One day it just stops. She doesn't talk to me for a while.
We start talking again and snap chatting but she won't agree to meet up. She just ignores the text.
Last night she finally agrees to meet up here is the conversation.

Me: Can I expect to see you again?

Her: You are the best I've had so.. yeah..I'd like to see you again..

the next day

Her: Hey after we made plans I had time to processes what it meant. I met a guy recently that gives me that feeling that I thought I couldn't have anymore. We have only been on one date. Not even a serious thing but I feel like if I see you I will be doing both you and him dirty.

Me: So a feeling that I don't give you?

Her: Yes that shit I told you was dead in me.

Me: What feeling do I give you?

Her: You give me comfort and laughter and amazing sex.

Me: Last time I saw you, you kept telling me how much you liked me. You woke me up at 3 am to tell me you like me A LOT.

Her: I do Like you a lot you are a full package of a guy. Talented, Honest, have your head on straight. But I dont control how I feel..

Me:What feeling does the other give you that I don't.

Her He gives me butterflies, has the same path in life as me and the same love for the ocean and the simple life that I want. I have known him for a year but only as an acquaintance. Hes watched me with Tyler that whole time. (Tyler is her most recent ex)

more unimportant messaging

Me: I want to tease the hell out of you

Her: Yeah... there lies the danger of chilling with you

Me:Why is that dangerous.

Her: That whole best sex thing is hard to resist.

Me: Then don't resist. your the best I have ever had too.

Her: awww shucks.... You don't care that I have feelings for someone else?

Me:I do, but you told me you wanted something casual so I have resisted falling for you. That negated me being hurt if something happened.

Her: Hmmm....

Me: If you decide to eventually be with him then you have me blessing.. In a non religious since.

Her: Hmmmm.... I need to process these extremely tempting developments.

Then I run some attraction blah blah but She says she likes me in her life and would want to remain in it.
I will be seeing her Sunday. Anytime we are together we fuck like crazy.

My question is.

Why do I not give her butterflies?
We saw each other for a month doing everything together and countless hours of sex.
Also whenever we are sleeping, if I stop holding her and turn around, she flips and and holds me immediately.

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