| So I've known of this girl for years (off the internet), we're basically permanent texting buddies. She's cuteish, but not astoundingly cute, and not quite ambitious enough for me to really want to date.
She also hates that I've slept around a lot and won't ask her out.
We've only met up physically a few times. The first time was right before I got into PUA, so I sucked.
The second time was after about a year and a half of PUA, and I was quite a bit better, and flirted with her friend (who was cuter) which set her off yelling at me over the phone when I left, and telling me to "admit I liked her [her, not her friend]" and she has since refused to see me - though to be fair, I haven't really been trying that hard, as I was dating a string of other girls.
Anyway, she's been dumped like four times this year, she's single, and she knows I'm single. It's her birthday at midnight tonight, and she has told me she wants to meet with me. Originally she said, "want to get beers?", but now she's changed that to, "Let's watch movies and drink wine".
To me, that pretty much says sex. The only issue is, this girl is typically pretty locked down - I don't think she's had sex outside of a relationship, though I think she has screwed around.
So how do I deal with this situation? I expect a lot of LMR, and that I'll have to do a lot of qualification. She wants to be told she's pretty and believe she's better than other girls (this one especially does).
How quickly should I make a move, how should I play it? Ostensibly, she's not inviting me over for any romantic purpose, but come on now. Wine and movies? On her -birthday-? That's just about as transparent as it can be. Plus, of all the guys for her to have casual sex with, I make the most sense, as I do actually enjoy talking to her over text (and her me) or else we would have ended it quite a while ago. Plus she frequently hates me, and is very passionate, so she definitely wants to fuck me.
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