I've been going to my local strip club every 2 weeks for about 2 months or so. I don't go to pick-up, rather, I like the SPAM, have a couple of drinks, tip a couple of dancers, and go home.

For the last few visits, this one stripper always comes over and talks to me. I've never bought a dance, and besides the few bucks I threw on stage once (I tip all the dancers on stage).

I always chalked it up to this dancer just passing the time. She's not hustling me, but she knows I'm not strange and a good person to take her break with.

However, the last time I was there, a few nights ago, the situation changed. She's much more passive than she was initially (she has this bad-ass stripper persona which has since evaporated when we talk). We talked about her jobs outside the club, her coke addiction, etc. Now, this is the hottest chick in the club, and so as we are talking, some random customer comes up to her, and asks her to come see he and his friends over in the VIP booth. She tells the guy she'll try to stop by later and she and I keep talking for another 15 mins or so- until she had to go on stage.

She's not trying to get cash out of me, if so, it's a sinkhole since I haven't given her but a few bucks over the past 2 months. She always comes to sit by me when she gets off stage, we always talk about 20 minutes. Last night, while we were talking, another dancer came up to my other side to talk to me. Eventually I got up and moved, and a few minutes after I sat down, this dancer came over to resume the conversation.

I'd like to see her outside the club. The last time we were talking, she was asking if I was married, why I always come into the club, and what I do for a living. I didn't answer her questions directly, and now see that I should have... after she had just admitted to her drug addiction etc, it was a bad move to play coy.

So what's your sense of her, and should I attempt to see her outside the club? I read somewhere that the stripper will give you her number if she's interested. Since she gets asked out so much, you should never try to get the number. The strip club is new environment for me and I'm a bit lost at where to go from here.

Don't date the stripper man. c'om on..... I hear there wild in bed though...
If your are going to pick up someone at the gentlemans club, go for the bar girls, my friend tagged one when we went last time, go to see her to .

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She's a stripper, she has some sort of emotional baggage or a meth-dealing ex. All strippers are always playing the game to make $ while at the strip club.

I get that it's a cliche fantasy, but just stop.

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