So I hook up with lots of women, every week I have a new girl when I'm single. The problem is I cant find a girlfriend. I meet a girl I really like and date her for sometime between a month and 3 months and when I begin to really like them I feel the cold shoulder so I end up moving on and hooking up with other women. Whats wrong with me? I'm very good at meeting women but if I like them, they never want a relationship. I'm 28 now and my longest relationship has been 10mnths and feeling like I'm missing out.

So I broke up with the most recent girl today, absolutely beautiful. At first she called me all the time and then began to freeze me out over the past two weeks. Fuck that shit. I texted her every few days saying shit like hope all is well, and she gave me bull brush off polite answers.

So I set up dates with other women. Met up with her but scheduled a date for an hour later. I basically told her that I loved her, which i did sometimes, and told her that I've been left in the dark and haven't heard from her in a while and so I've moved on and slept with someone else (which I did). Gotta look out for myself. She said she didn't want me to text me every now and again for the little communication I was expecting after 2 months of chilling 4 times a week and she freezed me out all of the sudden for almost two weeks and I was concerned. she said that was just too much for her and she knew it wasn't a lot to text me every now and agian (during the freezeout that happened all of the sudden...before that she was texting me all the time). Told her I had to get to my date. Generally we smiled and laughed and enjoyed eachothers company as usual even though we were kind of breaking up. No jealousy even though she knew that I hooked up with someone else and I had a date lined up after our convo. There was a period were she almost cried but she generally was ok. I broke up with her the best wa yI could while letting her know that I loved her,( I was happy, smiling and had a date soon). Bitchy thing to do is decide all of the sudden she doesn't want to have to let me know everythings ok every few days when I send her a text, and generally wants to ignore with polite answers.

How could I get this girl back? And what the fuck is wrong with me, no girl wants to end up with me, lots of girls want to fuck me. Any help would be much appreciated.

It's really hard to say what you are doing wrong or why they are ignore you, it's seems like a specific type of girl that you be able to seduce to fuck with you the rest you just can't.
you are too obvious with girls, I think thats your problem, you telling them everything and probably some more beginner mistakes, as Over complimenting, too considered etc...

I'm willing to bet it's a simple case of "good looking PUA with no game" syndrome

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Maybe I'm complimenting a little too much or too considerate. We were dating for 3 months she's invited me to Dallas with her (which I didn't go because it was too early in he relationship), picked me up at the hospital, even said "bye my love" to me once; which I didn't respond to because that too was too early in the relationship. I hold certain things back, never mentioned a relationship to her. However I do like communication healthy relationships. She apparently didn't think similarly as if I knew despite some things she didn't want one I would of dated other women too. But both of us said that we weren't sleeping w other people. One time she asked me how many women I've had unprotected sex w since I met her so she can know for her own safety, I told her none and thought this was a way of her asking me if I cared enough to not sleep w other people in a back way but I guess it was really a safety question?

Anyways I'm very good at game until it gets to a certain point in a relationship. How does push pull look when you get a month of passion in when do you pull and when do you let a girl you care about her? When is it ok to call a girl beautiful?

After some passion I continue my life as a mature independent but at the same time show my appreciation for the girl by showing her that I care whenever an opportunity presents itself.

Any help from experienced relationship puas would be much appreciated.

BRO! Can we trade problems?!? Because although I get ass every now and then, it's not as much as I would like.

I have had a few ONS and fuck buddys but for the most part...my situation is that I will meet a girl and go out with her. Then, after 2-4 dates, we realize that we like each other's company and start having sex. Then after 3-5 months of enjoying the sex and the company (and only a few texts every 1-3 days), the girl sits me down to find out if I want to start a relationship.

It sounds like girls eventually realize your lifestyle of constantly banging new ass and they get cold (in order to protect their emotions) while you seem to protect yourself by having another girl ready to tap.

I have learned to never tell a girl that you want a relationship! Keep her confused by showing her passion and then being unavailable for awhile. If she wants you as a boyfriend, she will sit you down and tell you her feelings or straight up ask "Where is this going?"


M.E.G.A.

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Fb's are great but when that's all you seem to land you begin to start thinking that something's fucked up. Also going out and bringing women back to your house becomes a monotonous pattern/habit like anything you may get stuck in, inhibiting you from moving forward in that aspect of life. Don't get me wrong though it's nice to go out on any given night and have the confidence to take your pick.

Right now I'd rather have your problem. That being said these are good problems to have in the grand scheme haha.

Maybe that's it, after you share a particularly passionate or fun time, back off for awhile and assess the situation. This kind of thing probably drives women crazy. Then contact her a week later if the assessment is a positive one?

That could be my issue as if I have fun with a girl, in the past I've just wanted to keep the good times rolling. I can see how this can lead to a huge spike upwards and then plateau once the passion has reached a certain level, leaving the girl to think its time to move on? Not quite sure.

Perhaps tell her before you sleep with them of your intentions.

You will lose a few girls that want a husband, but gain long drama free casual relationships on the plus side

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I can see how this might work but I'm not sure I really like someone and what my intentions are until I've known her for a bit. I don't want a relationship with every girl I meet, the issue is that when I want a relationship with someone it never works out. Maybe there is something else I should be communicating?

Yeah same for me really

to be honest, I have done the whole "tell her your intentions before sex" but then they get angry with my honesty and they just think i want to fuck them and wipe my dick on their curtains and leave...

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Can't believe you are nearly 30 and behaving the way you are. You guys need to relax and chill out and stop forever trying to fucking double guess what she'll do or say and you need to stop trying to be one jump ahead of them. Seems to me it's you playing stupid mind games. Dude you need to grow the fuck up and when a girl asks how much unprotected sex you've had, she is looking out for her own safety. No girl wants to catch something from a festy dick do they and what's with all this lining up other girls for sex in case the girl you're with doesn't work out? How the fuck can you have a proper relationship doing that? Are you all fucking stupid?

After knowing her for 3 months and she asked you to go to Dallas, why didn't you go? Are you mainly having relationships with girls through texting and not seeing each other as often as you should because that won't work either.

@M.E.G.A stupid, confusing girls and deceiving them and not letting them know what you want is a dumb ass thing to do. Christ you guys need to treat girls like human beings instead of a piece of ass you can fuck and screw. No wonder you're all so shit at relationships.

Digital_Crybaby i see you're at it again. Once a month you seem to come on here and vent your sexual frustrations.

Strange, isn't it?

I don't know man... 3 months is pretty much enough for me to decide whether I want a relationship or not. It might go wrong later but what the hell, I can't wait forever and neither can the girl.

No wonder the girls leave, they have no idea where your relationship is going, and they quit before getting too attached to you. You are almost 30, and women in that age start thinking about husband, kids, and other serious things, so you need to be considerate about that. Unline we, men, women have way more limited time to reproduce, so they can't waste much of their time with so unsure things.

Peace,

In$tinct

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This one froze me out right when I began to start thinking about building a relationship with her. It seems the opposite, although she was the chaser for the first 2 and some odd months, then I began to genuinely care about her and enjoy her company, and that's when she froze me out. It's unfortunate because I really liked this one more than any girls I've met in the past few years (that says a good amount).

I could probably get her back at this point, but I feel like she fucked any foundation we had up, basically said that I was asking for too much as soon as I began to like her. Ironically that too much was actually very little...texting her once every few days and letting her know every once in awhile I missed her...this is especially not to much considering that she the vast majority of the relationship, when she was chasing, she was coming to my house all the time, doing other shit as well...

Maybe this is just a case of a girl that is weird and especially flaky with relationships...it all happened quickly...but at this point I'm moving on, not gonna try to get her back, cause I can say...she fucked it up.

I don't think she fucked it up. I also don't think that she wants you back. You can also try telling her whatever you like. She made up her mind that she is gone. She is being polite because she doesn't want to tell you straight up to your face that she is no longer interested.
The reason why you are still not in a relationship with any of the girls that you want is because you are insecure. And I can see why...
You follow a set of rules while you are going out sarging so you know that you are going to get laid. You trust those rules. You believe in those rules. You come across as confident and interesting and entertaining. Then you try to get in a relationship and you don't have any rules that guarantee you success. That's where you get insecure. You learned how to game but not how to improve in creating a relationship.
These are two different things in my opinion..

I thought you were specialising more into open relationships?