When I sometimes have the chance to go out to do anything (even if it isn't to try to find girls) I seem to lack the motivation or I over-think. But more particularly for pick-up reasons, how can I continuously adopt the FUCK IT attitude and just walk out the door! That seems to be my biggest problem - walking out the door!

It is the morning, and I wanted to go out to approach this girl I regularly see around but something seems to stop me. I don't think it is approach anxiety or anything like that because the trouble is actually just walking out the door! It sort of feels like that it might be pointless in a way.

So you have physical trouble walking out the door?

Um, yes its anxiety because something mentally is causing you to tuck your scrotum in and stay on the couch with your funyans.

The absolute best way to have a FUCK IT attitude is to fail/succeed so many times that it doesn’t matter whether the person says fuck you or rips your clothes off. Don’t try to rationalize why you aren’t taking ACTION. You think SOMETHING stops you, but you don’t think its approach anxiety…then what is it? You haven’t given enough info about yourself for anybody to determine what exactly is the problem. So, its anxiety.

Now start working to get rid of it. There is no formula for anybody to stop giving a shit. Sometimes it’s the ability to get any girl, sometimes its just failure after failure but you numb to it. Regardless, it’s a long term ordeal (for most people) so get started.

But moreso than anything, stop being a puss and go talk to them. That’s it.

Dead on the money.

You cant say fuck it until you know that saying fuck it doesn't matter. Whatever it is, just do it. Do it badly. Do it well. Doesn't matter. Just do it. See what it feels like. Feels great? Do it some more. Feels shit? Work out what went wrong and do it different. Whatever. No matter what happens you're still in one piece.

Discovering day game was my big fuck it experience. I find night game tough, you can get bruises doing night game. Trying day game... never had a bad experience. Heartily recommend it, fucking massive confidence booster.

I think it was Churchill who said "failure is rarely fatal".

You gotta push yourself a little bit.

Start doing things that slightly . Once you do them a few times and realize "Shit, I'm still alive!" it doesn't become so scary anymore.