Hey fellas

I just started recently re-reading The Game among other stuff and I really miss the old me back in college where I'd meet and pick up girls on a regular basis and take them out on dates and shit. Now im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and i cant seem to have that confidence that i used to have about 2 years ago.

I recently met a girl who is a friend of one of my closest buds and she owns a bar. I really like this girl and i cant seem to muster up the courage to talk to her and take her out for dinner and not just bang her. I dont really like going to bars and i dont drink so im having difficulty in finding a common place for us and she's always at her bar which sucks for me cause i cant get any other way of seeing her again and striking up a conversation. I also think she's not interested cause of the two times i was at her bar and saw her she didn't even talk to me even if we were with our common friends. And she only waved at me whenever I left unlike her other friends who would come and give me a kiss and a hug. She's a real challenge for me and i really want this girl.

Im going to the states in a few months to follow my gf and i really want to have this girl before i leave. Kind of like a last hurrah so im kind of hoping that some of you guys would help me and give me advice on confidence and other stuff.

A BIG THANKS TO ALL OF YOU!

How can these two sentences be in the same post?

Your not looking for stellar dinner conversation, you want to fuck her then chase your girl back. Admit it.

She seemed unapproachable, so you didn't approach? Oldest wus-out in the book! Blaming your lack of confidence on her perceived 'Aloofness' & 'coolness'.

Ever think maybe SHE really wanted YOUR dick and thought YOU were unapproachable?

Puts a new spin on things doesn't it?

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Welcome!

You will receive some criticism here because we can see some obvious problems, such as intense neediness. My input would be to consult male friends or wingmen in person. Do you have any? Why not? Thinking about that might shed some light on your difficulties.

I'm glad you stopped with the drink.