hey guys, very quick opinion opener.... for u guys haha. i'v given my number to this hb8, as i did she asked me to meet her on the weekend in a specific club to see this dj with her. now in your opinion if she dosnt ring me should i still go along? i did agree with her to go see her so verbaly its already set, or should i wait,
your opinions are greatly appreciated. thanks
-peace-

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

no you must phone her and get her to confirm! i did what your thinking of doing the other week and she totally flaked. however you may have had better rapport with me and may have built up a better realtionship.

of course you should go with your gut instinct. you could go for it. but then i would be prepared for disappointment.

hope u get to go and enjoy the dj set

good luck brother

I wouldnt even go man, its all on her terms! and a dj? dude u shouldnt meet a girl in a club unless you two are really close!
My advice is to get her on a date if you cant than pivot her!

- Impact

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thanks for the advice, i see what ur saying impact it was on her terms i didnt look at it like that b4 i was happy she'd asked me to go. i went down in to town with my freind to the bar where i work and she was in there with her freinds, again she looked happy to see me adn i built good rapport with her freinds aswell. when she asked me to come see the dj, i said no i was happy chilling at the first bar but said perhaps we'll hook up later.
bout 50 mins later she returns with her friends and we all get up on a table to start dancing which was fun. their leaving and ask me to come to another bar with her, i told her id meet her in their as i'd set up my friend with identical twins whom i hav talked to before, hahaha both hb8 and we were chatting with them...
we then go to the other place and meet up in there, i hav had a really good night and she's had a good nite also.... even though i got chucked out of the place for caling the bouncer a wanker. (not so smooth i know) well she came outside when i was ejected to make sure i was ok we had a laugh and i hope to be seeing her again soon.
my prob is now i get a good vibe of this girl and get strong IOI's im sure she's attracted, but i do hav trouble gettin any sort of close from her.. there is a 9yr age gap i think this is what she could be getin hung up on, so do i rib her about that adn see how she reacts, or because i think she could be concerned about it stear clear of the subject?

-peace-

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera

I Don't think the age gap is the difference dude. I think shes pushing you in the older brother role! You gotta close and hit the button as soon as possible. You don't have to freak her out about it. just say, hey im going out on Thursday to do some shopping and go around town! i need a little side kick monkey to give me female advice! and guess who that monkey is? *look deep in her eyes and smile*. Play with it, get her out on the date.

Then demonstrate value by taking her to gorgeous places where shes never been before. If you have a friend security guard or if you can somehow get up on a really tall building for a amazing city view, or you know these cool lounges that no one knows or just something different, not coffee or any of that. Also when your buying clothes make her dress you up, take her in the dressing room and try out diff things! Make her drag you into her chick dressing room, just escalate the whole day, than sit her down and say lets cuddle somewhere! get kino going, do my kiss close which is

Hey are you wearing lipstick or lip gloss?
mm does it leave a mark?
Lets try *point to cheek* get a kiss
did it leave a mark? no
alright than your ready for kissing, come here!

and thats like your SOI to her. I have a feeling if you don't hurry up and close the deal youll fall appart and become the big brother she always wanted LOL.

- Impact

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cheers dude, i'm gna push for the date but the age gap is the other way around. sorry for not been clear the advice rocks she is 28 and im 19.... i was worried that she's jus seeing me as a play thing but i kicked that thought into touch so all is good, i'll let you all know how it goes soon enough.
thanks again
-peace-

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Black tattoos up and down his arm, aint nothin more dangerous than aboy woth charm - christina aguilera