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PostPosted: Mon Apr 21, 2014 3:37 am 
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I went sarging yesterday night at a high end nightclub in Beverly Hills. Earlier this week I contacted the promoter of the club who cut me this deal: bring 5 girls with you and you'll get in for free and you'll sit at my table with free drinks. I brought 8 girls (all friends). Once at the table I gamed some of the other girls and got one number (solid). Then I went sarging on the dancefloor, but there my value was low because the table was kind of remote and people could not see me surrounded by women. I got another number. Not much for all the work I put into gathering the girls.. Any tips on what to improve next time?


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You were at a nightclub and you didn't ask your female friends to come out and dance with you? That would have been your best bet.

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 2:38 pm 
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You got 8 " Girlfriends" ??? You could have brought them all on the dance floor, as the other poster suggests...However when Ive done that in the past its like throwing chum out for all the other sharks...and it can turn into a bit of a sword fight on the dance floor.
regardless...If you are alone, but make some effort and show you got rhythm, on the dance floor, women will gravitate around you, happens me all the time. Most guys are static, just stand there or nod their heads. women go for the guy with the snake hips.
when I have multiple women at a table, its when i have infiltrated a girls night out...i flirt with them and am obvious about it..like have my arm around them each in turn etc, but I do it in a playful non-threatening manner, more joking around than serious ..it gets a lot of looks and Ill use this as my social proof, during the night. When I have done this, women will stop me on the way to the bar etc and hit on me.
The problem for you, is you cannot flirt with friends you may well work with etc...So when your at a table with these 8 friends, your kinda gonna be static and you not gonna come off like a pimp, just a guy with a bunch of women...I dunno if you get what I mean...but the difference is you have to be seen to be flirtatious and getting laughs etc...i mean a gay guy will often have a few women with him etc...
So in short...be seen to have fun and flirt with the women your with...and if your on a dance floor, have fun and move.

There are better looking dudes than me and better dressed dudes than me...but I never see a guy having as much fun as me when I go out and I sarge alone most of the time. The guy who comes off like a lot of fun is the guy who attracts.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 7:06 am 
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Thank you for the advice guys! Now that I think about it, I was not flirtatious with my friends, just friendly. That's one of the missing pieces.. In the club I went, all the high quality girls were at the tables, so nothing interesting on the dance floor. I definitely gotta get good at the nonverbal stuff.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 23, 2014 3:14 pm 
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Thank you for the advice guys! Now that I think about it, I was not flirtatious with my friends, just friendly. That's one of the missing pieces.. In the club I went, all the high quality girls were at the tables, so nothing interesting on the dance floor. I definitely gotta get good at the nonverbal stuff.
Like I said though...being flirty with your platonic gfriends, will lead to drama. I have no idea if you want to get with any of these platonic gfriends, or if you only want them for bait. That's why when im in similar situations, the women i flirt with, i dont know...so no blow back.

Getting in to a position in a club where you can approach a table full of women...and end up as the life and soul of that table, is obviously not easy and often it has a lot to do with luck as much as game. I mean I can hit on a set, and every woman in that set can be quiet and unsociable...where as another set can lap up every line you throw their way.. But if you can get into that position in a club, your set for the night...I got a hired gun that way.


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PostPosted: Thu Apr 24, 2014 7:18 am 
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No, I do not want to get involved with any of my girlfriends because I'd lose them that way. They are my DHV when I go to a club. My game is not yet to a point where I can infiltrate a table full of women. Or maybe it is. I just haven't tried that yet..


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Okay buddy, right off the bat f*ck entourage game/social circle game/DHV game.

Go into the club, approach women, ask them questions and conversate to build a connection with them...escalate from the moment you approach the woman and just have some balls and ask for number/kiss her/take her home. You're complicating the entire thing too much...no wonder you had little luck, your body language more than likely showed that you were nervous and overthinking. Clubbing and pulling is supposed to be fun and natural, make it that way.

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Dilla, I agree 100% with you. What you suggested works. But in an average bar with average girls. However, I'm going for the 9s and 10s and the traditional game doesn't seem to be enough. OR My game is just not good enough yet :)


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Dilla, I agree 100% with you. What you suggested works. But in an average bar with average girls. However, I'm going for the 9s and 10s and the traditional game doesn't seem to be enough. OR My game is just not good enough yet :)
Good luck with the dimes. On rare occasions Ive been hit on by the 9's n 10's and no effort was required...but Im talking RARE occasions, and when I analysed what made me superman on those rare nights /days well I dunno exactly, I guess I just happened to fill some niche with these chicks...Trying to pull them usually is like pulling teeth more often than not...then again maybe I aint trying hard enough, now where is that fedora hat and fur coat haha.

But remember what I said about women going for a niche. Us guys go for "hot" chicks..white, black asian...we dont give a shit as long as they aint fat..but women have a whole loads of random turn ons..One might want a dude with long hair and another goes for a guy with no hair...if you happen to be "that guy" on the night and the dime who likes that specific look is there...well its like that. I mean if you go for the neutral, kinda safe look, it is supposed to have the broadest appeal with most women...but if you try to look niche, you might have more luck, with some of the dimes, some of the time..

The DHV shit does work..but you can generate that effect on the night...just by chit chatting with random people and groups in the club...women see you with people and assume you know loads of folks..You do not need to enter the club with anyone.


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