First of all: Introduction. I'll copy-pasta my post in the introduction forum.

I'm glad to finally join the PUA community to share my experiences and learn from other members. I've been in the game for quite a while and consider my self as a rather experienced.

I'm a 21 year old Swede, living in the Swedens capital Stockholm. Currently studying M.Sc in CS and BA in Economics. I've been competing in martial arts and been weightlifting since my early teens. I work as a programmer, lecturer and model.

But enough bios, I'm not here to tell you about my life story. I rather tell introduce my self in a manner that represents why I've ended up on this forum.

My whole life I've had a huge interest in understanding how women work, the pure psychological triggers that need to be pulled to get into ones mind and build an attraction. The "game" of understanding these patterns and making the right moves to gain a girls attraction have always been a interest for me.

My sexual activities started early in my teens, and since then I've been with many girls and successfully seduced a major amount of women. Most of these seductions and sexual encounters have been smooth without a lot of hassle, but I have a keen interest in gaining a deeper understanding of womens mind and gain the ability to seduce anyone. I want to understand, to learn, to share experiences and help less experienced men to become a great PUA.

I look forward to becoming active on the forum and learn from more experienced PUAs as well as teaching those we are less experienced.

If you have any further questions regarding my introduction, please feel free to ask.

Goals
* Deeper understanding of the female and male mind
* Closing 80% of the girls I approach

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"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." - Oscar Wilde

Yesterday I was out night sarging with a friend of mine. Good day, great mood. Several approaches, good outcome.

The Situation
Entering club. It's not very crowded yet and people seem to have a quite mediocre time. I focus on entering the club with a great posture and smile on my face. Instantly get deep eye contact with a HB~8. She's with 4 guy friends. My mate goes for a wee.

The Approach
I approach the group of 5 with a great smile and introduce myself, not giving the girl a lot of attention. One of the guys is clearly the AMOG, I talk to him and make it clear that I'm not afraid of him. We have a nice chat (turned out to be a really nice guy), and the other guys join. The girl is craving for attention. I lean over to her and ask her what she does for a living, while touching her shoulder (KINO, always the way to go). It is clear how much she wants my attention.

After finding out a bit more about her I again turn to the males of the group, telling them a great story about last time I was at the club.

[Fluff talk with males]

I ask them if they would mind if I had a chat with the HB8. They don't. I took her away from the group and play with her mind, seducing her.

The End
Didn't care much about the ending. I was not sexually interested in her and didn't care about closing.





The Situation
HB5 and HB8 friends standing by the bar outside. I notice my friend approaching them from a distance. He did good, they both had a great laugh. I decide to go in and try to feel the situation, helping him out if needed.

The Approach
He sees me coming and invites me over for an introduction. I got a real deep look into both of them, (HB8 had beautiful eyes btw), already there it feels like I'm in. My friend is clearly hitting on the HB8 ( ), but giving her way to much attention. I focus on keeping the HB5s attention and neging the HB8. This is where things went wrong.

The HB5 was a real buzz killer and totally boring. To keep up the conversation was hard. I keep neging the HB8, but suddenly I feel a bit tension between us and realize that she was quite offended (obviously she didn't want to be called hipster, though she was by all means, hipster). I think this was a result of her friend being really boring, girls spread their emotions between each other.

What did I learn

When approaching groups of two where one of the girls is really bored (or genuinely boring) one really has to focus on making her mood better. I failed that very point and the whole approach died.





The Situation

We are walking into the main dance room of the club, where I notice two girls having a drink and dancing slowly. Both of them ~HB7. One of the girls has a hair band kind of, and this is where I see my chance.

The Approach

Approaching them with a "no-no-no" (but happy) face I go up to the girl with the hair band and whisper in her ear (due to the loud music) "You look kinda cool with your hair band, but I can make you look really cool". While whispering I was working hard on the KINO touching her shoulder and back. She's into it.

I fix her hair band, she gets all nervous about it looking bad, I start teasing her for trying to fix it. I'll fix it a few more time and finally, go up to her again and whisper that now she really looks cool. We have a nice chat and I constantly work on the kino touching her lower back.

I don't want to give her to much attention, and tell her I'm going out for a smoke (don't even smoke) with my friend, and that I'll see them later.

Later she approaches me and starts to talk.
[fluff fluff]
The End
As my friend and I are about to leave, I go up to her and tell her that I'm a cool guy to be with and that she should give me her number so we could hang out. She didn't her what I said due to loud music. I give her a kiss on the cheek and whisper the same thing in her ear. She gladly gives her my numbers, I end with a KClose.

What I've learned
Kino! Kino! Kino!

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"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." - Oscar Wilde

Seems like you're somewhat of a natural. Keep posting, I want to learn from you

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My Pick-Up Journal

Thank you Unfazed!

Yesterday I was out sarging with two friends of mine. First of we went to a random bar, which were all dead. No chicks. At least no chicks > HB4. It was a total disaster, but the beer was good at least.

We sit there for a while just enjoying each others company talking about programming and other nerdy things, that's just how it is when I go out with my dear study mates. But I like it. All of a sudden I get a random text from a girl I've been talking to a couple of weeks ago, she is wondering if I'm out clubbing, I'm like yeah sure we're leaving any second. We meet her up at TGIF, never met here before just been chatting around over the phone (girl started to chat with me on Tinder a couple of weeks ago).

We meet her up, she's happy-tipsy obviously and obviously into me from the first second. Score. Give her a gentle but firm hug. Chit-chat fluff fluff for a while, then all of us go sit down at a table. I meet the friend she's with and we all sit down. I can see the girl gazing at me constantly, but I keep my focus on her friend while teasing and neging the girl (she's like an HB8 btw). I can see her getting a bit stressed out craving for attention, so she starts talking to my friend for a while. I give her some attention and she answers directly, giving me her full attention. I start looking at her ring as an excuse for some gentle kino, play with her hand to built the tension up a bit.

This is where I start looking for discreet IOI's. She's gazing me, obvious IOI, kind of like the puppy look. She's fixing her hair, exposing her neck, scratching her hand, fixing earrings, laughing constantly. All these IOIs where there. These are the main things I'm looking for when pushing and pulling.

I started to push a bit again, make a bit fun of her and kind of stop the eye contact for a while. Then pulling again. The game was on.

Time flew by and I had to leave, got some things this morning I had to sort out and did not want to be drop dead tired. Tell her we are leaving, can see her obviously wanted me to stay. Everyone is hugging at the table saying good bye, I hug everyone but her, and whisper that she should follow me to the door instead. She follows, I hold her waist. At the door I hold her closer and grap the hair behind her ear gently (best kino), hugging her closely and kissing on her the cheek. Did not feel like doing a KClose at the moment and rather wait for the FClose soon enough. I'm throwing BBQ and pre-drinks tonight and invited her. She was totally into it.

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It all sounds good right? But here is the deal. When we sat down at the table (a large 5m table) she did sit down on the other side of the table. This isn't a big deal most of the times, because you can easily slip to her side and get some kino and a more intimate chat. But this wasn't a god damn ordinary table, I had no chance what so ever getting close to her. It annoyed me, my game focuses a lot on kino. What would you guys do in this situation?

// Ethgrop

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"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." - Oscar Wilde