Long story short I used to date this girl for about eight months but I ended things with her a few days ago when she had the audacity to tell me that her and her son's father who is also her ex is her family I wasn't with that and if she wanted that way they could be a family without me in the picture...but there is her friend that I would love to get to know better she has goals, smart, isn't a slut, has morals and values...she would be someone I would want to be in a relationship with...how would I go about getting her friend? She's a good gIrl I don't see her often except at work she works 2nd and I work 3rd so I don't really get to conversate with her for any longer than 5 mins...how would I go about getting this girl?

Some people come into your life as blessings, others come into your life as lessons.

You will need to approach her somehow!

Did you work with the other chick also?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Yes I worked with her also

Ever think of branching out?

Anyway:

Lead..

Flirt flirt flirt

Do lunch together

Make out with her in your car

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

As long as she knows she isn't your only option, it can happen.

If you hang out with her right away, she'll know it's because you've got nothing else going. Whereas if you wait a little bit, she may be suspicious of becoming her friend's replacement, but you'll always have plausible deniability.

Date other chicks in the near future.

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