So, I dated this girl for 2-4 months, I broke things off and messed up a lot in the relationship and looked really weak. At first we tried to be friends but I was too upset and didn't want to see her.
Then I called her twice, it was awkward, I didn't do the best job possible and the second one she was disrespectful and sort of ignored me while on the phone with her guy friends...

Maybe things have calmed down since then and we haven't been talking cause I'm moving on. Althought, she still comments on my FB status'. I don't like or comment on hers.

I put a status about an article how Taking selfie's too much means girls are crazy.
She comments, "Girls aren't the only ones that take selfie's."
I said, "You missed your true calling as a lawyer" (one day later). (She wanted to be a lawyer)
She replies back a day later with, "Is that sarcasm?"

I don't want to be mean or come off as a jerk, I have a few ways I can handle it but how should I respond?
She's sort of the type that's self-conscious and has low self-worth/esteem. So she may always think the worst of what I'm saying. So how do you deal with an Ex that could be upset with you (she could be upset for other reasons about our relationship & etc.)

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In all honesty, do you want to deal with this girl? Is it worth trying to figure out ways to get you two on the same page? You don't always have to respond to every girl if you don't want to. I still get little "pings" from girls who I have layed with in the past, but that doesn't make me go out of my way to reintegrate them back into my life if I don't want them to.



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ill be blunt.. stay away from ex's! ex's are ex's for a reason...
ive got involved with ex's and its a bad idea. ive talked about one in particular on here before which i wont talk about again but in the end it became a bad cycle, the thing is you could get back with her and if it ends again how are you going to feel? even worse then before!

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Guys you's are 100% right, I just thought I might be offensive by not replying even though the convo wouldn't go anywhere. But what I did do was invite her to like my bands FB page like 3 days after. Was that acceptable or bad? And I added an event in my FB I said "everyone is welcome to come to my bands first gig" but I didn't invite her to that I'd leave it up to her.

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I thought you said you're moving on. Why bother to reply or care about what she think of you? She thinks you're a jerk. No problem. She thinks you're mean. No problem.

In fact, you should not let other people' opinions faze or affect your frame and reality, especially when it comes to women. Hot women. I don't respond to every text - I ditch the conversation if they give me one word responses. I don't even bother to finish the argument after I said my pieces. And I do not respond to any comment they make on my FB statuses most of the time. Do I feel like a jerk? No. Stop worrying too much about what others think of you.

When it comes to exes, I'll try to keep the peace, just in case she's bipolar and is plotting to kill me. Other than that, when I've moved on, I treat them like one of my social guy buddies. You know the type that you say "hey how is it going" and go on your own way afterwards.

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