I was thinking this morn, and although I could picture the lady I wanted in life, I realised I'd never set it in stone. So I did. Yeah, I know all the books say you should do this First thing, but maybe you guys haven't refreshed in a while. I'd like to see what you think your ideal lady is, maybe we aren't all competing for the same girls! No judgements, yo.

Speaks at least 3 languages
Educated
Appreciates the natural world
Always getting smarter, has intellectual passion for something.
Can communicate her interest and make me want to be involved.
Sense of class, but not attached to comfort all the time
Independent, a little vulnerable, playful
Likes adventure, can take the lead too
A little tomboyish
Not a bitch, particularly in the mornings! Understanding.
Kinky side
Curvy, 8~14, d-g (UK sizes, roughly 4-10 us)
Powerful, confident lay
Smitten
Nice accent
Down to earth
Deprecating s.o.h

What I realised is that by doing this exercise there are now two kinds of women. Those for fun non-serious times (99.9% given my personality criteria) and those rare ones that I might actually risk a little on. I've also realised that I'm not very shallow! Why do I demand those standards of her? Those are the standards I hold myself to, and I couldn't seriously consider a relationship with someone who didn't care about their mind.

I'd love to hear your lists. Is it better to be very specific? Right now I feel like being specific helps shield me from getting AFC over anything with a pussy!

I'll post mine when I get home.

I speak 4x languages, but I would rather use that ability to meet foreign women. A super talented girl is just gonna steal your thunder and hog your limelight.

I prefer submissive untalented women who are good at sex and cooking/cleaning. And in the nicest possible way, I value very highly a girl who is respectful and knows when to shut the fuck up.

I can't think of anything more unattractive than a masculine woman who takes the lead.

Aha. You mean women like Elizabeth Spelke!



Personally, I want women with voices like these:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZ3OLswKKAw[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYBH40d4Q3o[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WqG4zx7UT28[/youtube]

Not necessarily singers. It's a bonus though if they can lick my asshole, suck my balls, and cook at least a dozen different recipes.

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