Hi all, its my first post, am at my forties, divorced, getting back in the game...

I met her in a yoga class, she gave me some IOI, we talked

I looked for her and found her contact in facebook, i got her number..

1st date: i took her in a gallery, i want my girls to appreciate art (am 42, she is 40), then i took her for a drink, i started light touching her hands, she was a bit tensed, she was very friendly, laughing and looking at my eyes, i thought it went well in general. At the end i went to kiss her, i landed on the her cheek.

i never initiated communicating, she did.
2nd date: After a week, she called me to meet saturday evening for a beer.
we met, i took her for a chat in a cafe, then for a beer to another bar, she was friendly, laughing and all, reacted well to my touching, i went to kiss, i landed on her cheek, we continued talking, teasing etc, she started saying about sex on festivals and condoms, so i thought 'its on', but i didnt made a move to kiss her at that moment (maybe that was my mistake).
I took her home, with my car, i went to kiss her and i landed on her cheek.

Next all week, not a single communication, on saturday she texted me, we did that back and forward couple of times.

Then no communication for 2 weeks. I kinda erased her from my mind.

Then out of the blue she started texting again, every 5 or so days. Am noob with texting, so i came here, red that awesome texting topic and used that as a template for texting, teasing and all, calling her good girl if she did good, bad girl if she did something naughty and so on, she was accepting it, so it was cool.

After a week she started texting me and calling me to go out with her, so i asked her out.

3rd date: we meet, (she gives me a chocolate bunny as a gift), i take her with my car, and start chatting with her about positive feelings, about good times in life, we went to a nice romantic place up in the mountain, we chat, i starting to come close, touching her at hands, back, hair...
At some point i went to touch her heart, she thought i went for her breasts and she did a karate style nervus move and deflected my hand. she told me i was a pig!, i laughted inside (i know am not a pig), i told her all men are pigs.
Didnt stop me being friendly and with all good maners, she was friendly as well..

As we were leaving i went to kiss her, i landed on her cheek and she started laughing!
I continued to be uplifted and charming, chatting. She then started saying that she is a level 15 woman and that i am a level 12 man and things like that, all in a friendly tone, then went to say that she has so much going on in her life that didnt know where to go first.

Then i took her to a dance club, we dance like we didnt care for an hour and then left.
On the way back she started saying that she has lots of female friends and she would like to get me close with them, i asked her someting about her friends and she said 'why you want to know about my friends'
i droped her home, i went for the kiss, i landed half cheek-half mouth kiss.

Yesterday i felt good, it was a solid interaction, i learned things, i felt happy
Today i feel like i have a hangover, like i was used. (maybe because i paid for all dates-everything).
I will not chase her, i dont chase women.
so i shared this story here to take it out of me and move forward.
thanx for listening

thanks to everyone in the pua community who helps us be better humans

best regards

Hi,

I think you went for the kissclose too many times. She knows what you're up to from the start of each date. It is surprising that she keeps inviting you to dates, as if she still expects something of you. I think you should tell more stories about yourself when face to face to give her the idea that you're the prize. And neg her a bit, not only via text. Maybe tell her you've got another date when she asks you to hang out for a particular day. Complicated situation, though.

Cheers,
Mercurius