Hey guys,

I need some little advise. I was dating this girl for about 3 weeks. Everything was fine only around 10 days ago she had a little emotional break down. She is single for like 2 months and she said it was way too fast for her...

so we ended now as friends. How should i proceed now? I still want to be more. I am now totally calm and I never text her. So far she started 3 conversations with me via fb chat or sms texting..

Any advice?

Thx!

something happened 10 days ago, also you might just lost the game wrong play probably since she friend zoned you, (it doesn't matter what she says).
advice:
reanalyze your game again and get out of friend zone

May sound cheesy but just go out on a limb and cater to her romantic personality.

You did well in being distant. You've punished her for doing wrong in withdrawing your attention and now she's craving yours. That's a good sign. Tell her you want to start things up again and if she says she doesn't want to just say you're sorry, that you're not interested in being friends with her. Do that and leave the ball in her court. If she says she can't then just say "I'm sorry to hear that. Best of luck in life." and don't message her after that. She'll message you in a few days if she really misses you and say shit like she wants to talk, etc., etc. If not then who cares? Just move on and forget about her, she friendzoned you and that's worse.

Thx for your response. well ye, I gave her now lots of free space. I think she is craving now for my attention. She just texted me where I will be tonight outside. So I guess she wants to see me.

So I am thinking I should try heat things up again and I am very confident, because of I think we will be both drunk at it should not be awkawrd. But I still dont know how should I do it...

I didnt see her, but I made out with another girl. I guess it was a quite a good night hehe

You're taking this "relationship" way too seriously and it's probably creeped her the fuck out. 3 weeks dude? And you're wanting to be all exclusive already?

Go out and meet and fuck atleast 10 other girls. If you're still thinking about her after 10 other vaginas, then message me and we will work it out from there.

Yeah. I usually just go with the flow and i'm usually not the first person to bring up a relationship. If I like the girl i'll spend time with her, have fun, maybe a few dates and invite her out with friends. Usually if they like you enough they'll start hanging onto you and start pushing towards a relationship.

Works well. Show interest, focus on having fun, keeping it sexual and enjoying each others company. Naturally the girl will start to have deeper, more romantic feelings for you and grow a close bond with you. If you're keeping it physical you're separating yourself as a friend and she'll know this and start looking to you as her boyfriend. Three, four weeks down the line she'll start talking about boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. Keep your mouth shut and wait for her to bring it up and want to go all in. Sets the standard in the relationship, says you're interested but not that interested and you're independent and not afraid of not being with her. Pretty much gives you a bunch of leeway.