Her: Are there many decent girls looking to fuck? I'd think those would be the ones to stay away from lol.
Me: Yah no doubt, how dar do I need to stay away from you?
Her: I am not looking for a hook up, no FWB it takes some work to get into these pants
Me: You're pretty interesting, How can we continue this conversation?
Her: by continuing to type in the line then press send

I thought about it and I should have said "I'm into manual labor" after her "it takes work". But oh well, What would you guys respond with?

Why did you ioi her. She threw 'almost' a neg and you follow up with 'You're interesting'. WTF! At least make it some what challenging for her.

Basically what she is doing. That needs to be you. I wouldn't even look to number close this. Forget it.

Look to build attraction more. Then go for the time bridge. A number as you will learn is irrelevant. Getting a number means nothing. You need to time bridge.

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I don't have a ton of experience with the online thing, but I did just make a pof account and in the first week I've gotten 5 quality girls numbers and have met one, planning to meet another this weekend.

There's a huge difference in some of the girls I'm meeting online, so you have to adjust, but in general I build report with them in the messages, try to be witty, tell them stories that make me seem more interesting than the other guys online (you have to understand how many guys are hitting on them at any moment, you need to stand out.) I tease them a good bit. If they respond with any emoticons, or any kinds of "lol" "haha" or any of the crap, especially if they are responding quickly, then I assume they are invested in the conversation and they are into me. Once I get the feeling that they are I put that I'm gonna have to get off soon and sometimes I don't log in very often on my pof account, just to check messages once a week or so and then go for the number close. Something like you should give me your number so we can keep chatting. I've had a very high success rate with this and have gotten to the point that until some of these girls become less responsive I'm not logging back in to pof because I can hardly keep up with the texts and phone calls from the five I've gotten.

That was lame lol

Your frame is way off. You need to be the challenge.

You really need to blueprint the convo and have a good think about the structure of it.




Her: Are there many decent girls looking to fuck? I'd think those would be the ones to stay away from lol.

Me: Yah no doubt, how far do I need to stay away from you?

(weak frame, you're letting her dictate the frame, your words suggest "please tell me how do i get into your pants please?)

A decent response: "There are plenty of people that are looking to fuck, from both genders, it's irrelevant, What are your intentions? You seem like a sex after marriage nun type.. :p"


Her: I am not looking for a hook up, no FWB it takes some work to get into these pants

(take her down from this pedestal!, she is telling you she is a challenge and you must work for it you little bitch)

there is no decent response because my previous reply wouldn't of got myself into this messy frame



Me: You're pretty interesting, How can we continue this conversation?


(you can't think of anything to say, so you reward her princess behavior with a crappy compliment)

Next time ask for her number when she is invested in the convo and she asking you questions

Her: by continuing to type in the line then press send

Well deserved sarcastic response.

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