Exactly. My ex cheated on me for I don't know how many months (without my knowledge, of course), all the while sending me messages about how she loves me, misses me, wants me there, etc. It doesn't mean shit.

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do you seriously think he is moron? she taunt him and he is fine with that?
first she sleeps with guys then night after, she tells him "i'm doing it again this time another girls joins"
she laughs in his face and he will ask us if she disrespected him, he is college student not 13 years old boy.
there was only one time, and she got the idea.
he's writing is a little bit messy chronologically, too much "last nights" confusing, makes hard to determine what times he was talking about, plus he was quoting which mix the times.
his is just flowing with the writing, doesn't separate times.

To Vlad:
This was the 2nd night. She has her FRIENDS over. The guy friends. They are still there.
So she has ANOTHER friend over TOO (girl)...and she is texting him that the bed gets hot with us ALL in there. Present tense. So his girl, another girl and the guys are currently in the bed together.

The guys slept in her bed the first night. Then another girl joins and the guys and the 2 girls share the bed a second night. She texts OP while the group was in the bed.

yea i already knew what was your thoughts, thats why i explained mine to you.
i also posted at the start of my last message, that he isn't stupid.
the problem with your way is, that he goes out like total idiot since he says: event not events, indicate it happened once, other wise this sentence out of any logic.

I assume by event, he means when she slept alone with the boys.

If you break it down the entire paragraph doesnt make sense.
So I think I have punished her...How? You told her you weren't ignoring her.
She knows I can drop her at any time...How? Did I miss an apology? If she thought he would drop her, she would have clarified what the guy's sleeping in your bed rules were WAYYY before they came over. She may have been naive but she knows OP isn't leaving her like that. OP said he does not NOT trust her. Chick who was afraid or thought she could lose her man, would have called right then. She may text more, she may be submissive but this girl knows he won't dump her.

I optimistically assumed at the beginning that OP's pimp hand was as strong as he said and the guy just took a random pic sitting in her bed or she slept on the couch. But it sounds like she slept with the guys and slept with them and a girl the next night.

Right 2 nights ago
This signals OP is talking about currently as in 1 night ago (the second night).

The bed gets hot comment means she was saying last night was hot and tonight is hot.

Anyone else read it as 2 nights?

OP, is putting times inside times, its a way of typing/writing.
read it like as i posted it with colors, and you will see there are jumps in the time, since he describe too much "last night", also the spaces between paragraphs, and the conjunction words, indicates that he is getting back to some older time or idea.
you can assume it, but logically if she was with the boys, and then added another girl in 2 different night,
he understands she did something twice, so there is no way to describe it as single event (for example the event is an analogy to being in a same bed, like "he" is analogy in English for a guy mentioned former), only that way you can read as i posted with colors and only then it settles.
but the day will tell us, as OP will decide to clarify this.

Is the chronology so important here? I think what matters is that as long as this is the way OP is communicating with his girlfriend then this is not going to end well regardless of with whom his girl slept in the same bed. Shit happens in relationships. It is bound to. And the better you handle shit with proper communication and frame control, the longer the relationship will FUNCTION. If you can't do that then the relationship will end or stop working for not only situations like this, but for the most ridiculous reasons ever like a single smily in a text message(I think neo remembers that thread...)

To OP: Learn to communicate with your girlfriend and state your opinion clearly instead of playing any kind of stupid mindgames because those never help.

Edit and P.S.: If you are jealous, your girl knows. If you don't admit to it, that won't change the fact she knows, and it only prooves your weakness further.

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OP any further updates ? When are you going back ??