4 questions. I know it's a lot. Thanks to anyone who can answer.

1.

I'm 21. An AFC. Decent shape. But balding.

My inclination is to get no meds, but just learn to accept being bald. It's for the same reason why I'm starting to do approaches. I want to build self-esteem by facing my insecurities.

But question: Is balding at this age such a turnoff that I should get over to a pharmacy and buy some fin or minox?

2 (UNRELATED)

This is my understanding of how things should go between approaching and pulling. Is it basically correcT?

1. motor mouth
2. ask questions to make her sell herself (what makes you cool)
3. say "Afterparty" and pull

I think I mess up when I get a good conversation going. Then I move into step 2, and say something like "what are you passionate about?" and all of a sudden she is no longer enjoying the conversation.

Also, at what point in this whole thing do I convey attraction? Do I increasingly convey more and more attraction? Do I first neg (which some pua's say is always a bad idea) and then convey it?

3.
Lets say I meet 2 girls. We talk about our favorite foods. I want to invite the target to my place. How should I do this?

Do I say "come to my place and I'll make you food"?
Do I invite them both?

4.
When do I shit test girls? For instance, some PUAs suggest saying "What's my name?" to the girl after she gives you her number. I've always been doubtful that this is good advice. Don't tests like these wreak of neediness?
Does the phrase "win her over with kindness" apply to game?

Thanks!

go neil strauss and shave it all off.