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| ramu123456789 | PostPosted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 1:09 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Mar 28, 2014 10:04 am Posts: 3 | | Hi guys,i have a question for you , how to approach and attractive a girl in the Street?
do you have some phrase for to approach?
thank you
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| Clocks | PostPosted: Sat Apr 12, 2014 5:52 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Fri Aug 30, 2013 2:14 pm Posts: 273 | | They're known as 'openers' and there's loads of info about them in books and online
There are (I think) 3 types: Direct, indirect and situational
If you're shy, it might be easy to start with an indirect opener, such as... 'Hey let me quickly get your opinion... I'm seeing a friend on the weekend and he's gonna propose to his girlfriend. But his ex is gonna be there. Do you think he should do it?'
I don't have enough experience with the others to comment but there's plenty online. You should know, though, that opening is just the start
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| ramu123456789 | PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2014 7:34 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Mar 28, 2014 10:04 am Posts: 3 | | Thank you for your answer,but i have onother question, how do I overcome the anxiety of approach?
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| wisher | PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2014 8:17 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Apr 08, 2014 10:26 pm Posts: 8 | | just cheer up to gear up..!!
If u wanna approach someone.. cheer up urself.
think that u The coolest guy ever existed on The earth n which every woman wants..!!
think that u r The best .. n make The best of everything..!!
The T-shirt u wearing is The best.. The jeans or trousers.. are The best..cuz u r wearing them..!!
have a better posture.. n confidence..!!
use any opener.. u may like...!!
I may suggest u to use DIRECT OPENERS.!!
wish u luck enjoy..!! _________________ - wisher
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| lizardking | PostPosted: Mon May 05, 2014 8:24 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Dec 02, 2013 9:49 pm Posts: 81 | | I tend to do a direct opener (Google direct day game openers) if I'm actually going up to a woman and stopping her. Opinion/indirect openers always felt unnatural, I always think if it isn't something that you'd realistically say to someone on the street then you're better off going direct. It's about doing what's comfortable for you though but I think stopping someone and going direct shows a bit more confidence.
If it's more that I'm standing next to someone, say in a coffee shop or waiting for a train, then I do situational then a quick transition to something else.
Approach anxiety... there's a lot written on it, some good, some bad. Start small, go and ask for directions to somewhere and stuff like that. Then build in transitioning to something else. For example, ask for directions to a museum, ask if it's worth visiting and you should have some starting points for a normal conversation. Have no outcome in mind. A few approaches and it starts to become easier.
Also, learn to talk to EVERYONE. Don't just game attractive girls. Do it to everyone. The more it becomes just something you do then the more natural it becomes. Bar staff, people waiting for the bus, everyone.
Day game is actually incredibly good fun when you get over the AA. It gets really addictive.
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