Hello fellow pua's,

It seems that a lot of people wonder why a girl ever put them in the Friendzone and how sexualisation can help. We'll let me tell you that women want to be turned on just as much as men and if you don't get the arousal ball rolling from the get go she will not think of you as a lover. This zone you are in is simply because you were too nice and caring however not challenging enough and sexual enough to get her in bed. Being a nice guy is great on a date yet when you meet her you will definitely want to begin with sexualisation. However I see many questions regarding tips on sexualisation.

Thus for all our fallen brothers in the Friendzone please share your tips in the comments

Love this post! Yes!!! Escalate soon!! It's sooo important. I remember when I was always called "nice" and didn't get laid.... Not a fun feeling... Great post!

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I think one of the biggest problems consist of making the women know what you want. I like to think of it this way... If you aren't straight forward with them then they automatically look at you as a friends and this is because its a natural defense mechanism that has been placed inside of the girls head from society. Even if your in the friend zone its easy to break out of it. I have done this many times before and to tell you the truth I have had some really amazing relationships with women I was friends with first. The biggest and most important thing you must do is flirt with them and use kino when you in a social setting, by doing this your friend will start to understand what you want out of them and start to realize that you want them sexually. Think about it for a second... Do you get touchy feely with a friend?.. no you do not and that is because it is a barrier that has been established as friends. Once you remove that barrier naturally it will get less awkward for both of you. Naturally and easy way out is by doing this in a environment that would include alcohol, but that's the easy way out and can complicate things later on as another defense mechanism for a lady is to use alcohol as a tool to hide behind. I would suggest a non drug/alcohol environments to use this approach. Once you break down that wall I think the biggest problem some men have is having the balls to future progress because they are scared that it will "destroy the friendship". Look at it this way most friends that are girls are not really your friend... they are the opposite sex and more then likely are sexually attracted to your looks or personality. Why would a women be friends with someone of the opposite sex? We have so little in common with them. Honestly the only thing we have in common with women is sex... Can a women really relate to problems that men go through... yea it may seem like that but their thought process is completely different. Their for the friend zone is just a cover up of nerves and anxiety between the male and female. Its almost as if society has created this between us as this is not our natural instinct. Our natural instinct in both men and women is to find someone who can produce offspring of great quality just like any other animal. Take advantage of that and realize that a women is looking for the same thing that you are and break down that barrier. Are their many different techniques to do this... Yes such as the mutual friend approach or the isolation approach. believe it or not your more likely to have sex with a friends then a stranger unless naturally you have mastered the techniques of picking up a girl, which I imagine many of us have and that being one of the reason we all group up together and share our knowledge.


I hope this helps some people out in this community.

Thanks guys hoping more guys will take note

This is true. Ideally from the very SECOND you meet the girl, she KNOWS inherently that you are a sexual option. Whether this particular girl is into you is not the point; the point is any girl you meet knows that if she decides to spend time with you that you are going to move things in the sexual direction. She can just sense this. All from you just being normal, making eye contact with her and being smooth. This is why the "logical male" direct opener of "hey I had to stop you. I think you are cute" is completely pointless if your swag intuitively indicates to her who you are, with no ambiguity.

Very true. I mean credited to every master pua out there they all say the same thing. The main reason people can't escalate is because they lack the confidence of turning the encounter sexual

there is a window of opportunity to escalate, if you escalate once in the friendzone you will creep her out and fuck up the friendship... While it sounds good on paper "brah just escalate" irl is not that simple.

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Touch, touch, touch as much as possible.

Don't be shy to put your hand on her.
Begin always with safe spots--shoulder, hands, forearm.
Escalate-- lower back, knees, face, arm around her shoulders,
Sexual escalation--upper thighs, butt.
Closing escalation--Breasts, vagina.

If this is too complicated, when you are alone with her, just pull IT out, and let her figure it out.
This last tip takes balls to do, but the response is IMMEDIATE.
By pulling it out, you inadvertently ask the question "do you want to sex now or never"

Best,
samex

As well as kino I love being sexually daring when I talk to a girl. Everynow and then I show where I want the encounter to go.

Examples;
Cajun: "even if I didn't want to fuck you I would still want to get to know you"
Basically if she agrees she agreed to you wanting to fuck her
Steve p: " I bet everyone comes up to you and comments on your beautiful blue eyes, but I couldn't do that to some as cute as you( pause ) no, I'm gonna look you right in the eyes and say how beautiful your tits are"