So i asked this girl out who im not exactly friends with (spoke with her a few times she works across the street from me) and i asked her out to the movies and she said yes. So i havent went out with her yet because we are only going next week but i have been flirting with her via text messaging on the phone and it's going well I jokingly said i don't think you're worth a fancy restaurant dinner (she knows im joking and flirting) so she writes: "you don't have to invest allot of money into friendship, right?" Bam. Right there i was like, fuck. I know for a fact shes into Guys with big earings, Tatoos ect. but I want to know how i can turn the tables around on my moive date and make her attracted to me. It's really wierd that she said yes in the first place to go out with me if she still concideres me as a friend. So any suggestions what to do? Thanks in andvance.

You just ignore it and continue flirting with her(Although I think she was just teasing). When you're on your date you escalate physically... although cinema dates kinda suck. You don't really do much of anything except sit there awkwardly looking at a screen. Arrange for something after the movie like a walk in a park or something, maybe even drinks. At this point go for the close. Just kiss her when you're on your walk or in the pub.

I find it much easier and less stressful to be cocky and confident when you k-close. This is what I do: *Standing talking to one another* "Come here." *Smile* "Kiss me/Give me a kiss." It's just that easy. No bullshit, you're putting it out there and she's only going to say no if she has absolutely no interest in you. If she says "It's our first date" or some bullshit just say "Well, I have to know if you're a good kisser." Keep it flirty.

If she presses friend thing. wants an answer from you and won't leave it alone then don't accept being friends. Be tactful about it of course.

Grammar is important! punctuation & capitalization is the difference between helping your Uncle Jack off a horse and helping your Uncle jack off a horse.

Anyway....
I would have answered "WRONG, I love to be pampered!"

Are you trying to make friends here? Or do you want to bang her?

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I wouldn't mind banging her but but I don't want to stay friends with her. A relationship doesn't sound to bad either so I want to know what would be a good way to escalate attraction? and sorry about the punctuation I was typing fast.

Then Give her the “bratty little sister” SPAM.

This means teasing her, making fun of her, saying all the things you never had the balls to say to those bitchy little girls that snubbed you in the past. And don't worry about it when she suddenly acts "fake mad" hits you on the am, that’s a sure sign that you need to turn it up a little more. Oh, and most fun of all, call her out on everything she does or says that's silly, immature or girly. You’ll get her skin attention, she won't be able to leave you alone.

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Awesome advice you got there man! But do you think she was teasing me when she said "friendly" or she was serious? And before hand she was saying how allot of guys hit on her and the right one doesn't ever hit on her (even though I hit on her in the first place) and then I immediately ignored her statement and told her that she has to be the one to remind me to take her out (going back to our early convo about her proving to me not being like all the other sexy women who play games) and I ended my convo jokingly that I need to go move on speaking with the next girl.