| Hi guys! Finally there are some development about this story but first let me explain the history between me and this girl.
It's a girl I have met for the first time in summer 2012. We have seen each other for about twelve times and each time we have done some outdoor activities or went to the restaurant.
I am 43 and she is 27 but it doesn't seem to bother her too much. I find her very attractive, intelligent and funny and each time we see each others, we laugh, talk a lot and have fun. But, in summer 2012, after the third date, I invited her to do some camping. I was maybe too early to do camping after three dates. She then told me: "I think you are searching for something more". I don't know if she was talking about a serious relationship or sex but on my side I was interested in the serious relationship.
Then, we stopped seeing and communicating each others for about 6 months. Then, I sent her an email in February 2013 and asked her how she was doing. The conversation was very polite and a few weeks after I told her that I was going to a conference in her city in a few days. It could be fun if we go dinner together. We did and we saw each other a few times after that (outdoor activities mostly).
Then, last September, I asked her if she would accept to come with me to my brother's wedding. She accepted but said that she was seeing someone already so she would come only as a friend. At the wedding, she was perfect. We laughed, had fun and eventually dance.
A few months after, just before Christmas, she broke with her ex. In the mid of February, I was feeling down so she invited me to the restaurant to talk about it. I opened myself (probably a mistake) and said that at 43 years old I didn't know what to do next as a career ... She was very helpful that evening and eventually my little depression stopped and I regain confidence in the future.
A few weeks after, I invited her at my home for dinner. It was Mars 29th. Again, we laughed, drank a lot more than expected (especially for her) and had fun playing board games and table hockey game. On this evening, she was a lot more easygoing and laughing than usual. She arrived at my house at 5h15 and left at 11h45. Normally she is not the kind of girl that leave that late. At least, not with me. After that date, a few members on this forum said that I probably missed my chance with her because I didn't make a move toward her. During this evening, she made me at least ten different compliments. I just made a list and I remember receiving compliment about the dessert I served, the meal I cooked, the table hockey game that she liked, the other board game, my little training room that she found very cool, my home decoration, the vine I served and a few more. Normally she never compliment too much.
Last week I invited her to do some hiking tomorrow but she replied that she was doing a rock climbing course tomorrow so it would be impossible for her. And she added a at the end of her phrase.
And last Saturday, I just sent her an email saying that it's lobster time and asked her when she was available to have a lobster dinner together and for her to have a revenge on my table hockey game.
She answered me 20 minutes later saying that she was thinking of me the day before because she wanted to call me for eventually planning to do something together. She just told me if I am available for friday night.
So as you see, all the times we have seen each other was for doing outdoor activities mostly except the last date and the one next friday.
What I am sure is that she really wants to see me again. The other thing I think is that if she is interested in me and I don't make a move, she's going to go after another one.
That's where I am right now! It's not dead until it's dead. So maybe there is hope. But this time, I should make a move ... for a kiss eventually. What do you think I should do? Do you think she seems interested in me?
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