Met on Plenty of Fish (free internet dating site)

Day 1
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Went on first date. Met at happy hour place. Hit it off. Walked next door to another bar. Good conversation, mild kino. Lots of laughing.

Walked her to her jeep. About 20/30 seconds of making out. Definitely mutual.

Day 2
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Texted her next day some stupid joke from night b4. She responded with a funny 1 sentence response.

A few hrs later, she texted me about some TV show we were talking about. So, I'm thinking, cool. Unsolicited text

I said "cool. I may watch it later this week if I get a chance."

A few hrs. later, I texted her about possible next date the day after. Yeah only 1 day between (probably not a great idea) No response from her.

Day 3
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Texted her this morning (even though no response from day before) asking her to grab lunch this afternoon. She said she couldn't cause she was working.

So, I was like. No problem. Let me know when you're off next. No response.

Other info: I'm 39, she's 36. I have 2 kids. She's got 3. Both divorced. DC suburbs. Irrelevant probably, but had another date too last night, makin out on and off all night. I'm not interested in that one though.

Have I already blown this one?

If not, next step?

You're too needy and have scared her away..

You got the kiss, and then you're like "Let's meet up!!"

You should of just played it cool and told her what you're up to, then perhaps tell her that it would be good to hang out again and do (insert activity) together...


"Texted her this morning (even though no response from day before) asking her to grab lunch this afternoon. She said she couldn't cause she was working."


This was a bad response from her. Asking her out after she has rejected your offer only makes you look chodey. Then then to make it worse, you texted her in the morning which conveys to her that she is your life and soul to happiness every time you wake up in the morning. It's needy bro.


Kissing her on the 1st date too is sometimes a bad idea. Can create buyers remorse, especially for online 1st dates...

Give it a couple of days and if she doesn't response, send her this:

"You never write, you never call, rent is overdue, and the kid's want their mum, what shall I tell them???? "

If she still doesn't respond, don't waste any more of your time. Learn your lessons.

I know a divorce is hard and you're probably itching to find that woman figure back in your life, but play it cool and smooth next time..

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