Hi guys.
I am new to this forum and to the pua thing. I am happily married BUT for the last four years i had two fuck buddies. I think i can call them but i want some new emotions. So here comes my problem.

I changed my workplace and there was that HB co-worker. She was very attentive the first week helping me with everything and constantly laughing and smiling when talking to me. Touching me rarely(i assume this as IOI). I stopped talking to her so much the second week because i was afraid of falling in her friend zone. I played "not interested" for couple of days. I concentrated on AMOG(and i think i have success).

She kinda knows me because my wife used to work there but never met before. She has a boyfriend but I don't care. I don't know what do. What steps should I take?

That sounds cool man! I would just ask her to hang out sometime, but

her being A co-worker...thats kind of A tricky one there.

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Thanks man. That's a great idea. I can organize my co-workers to go out some night and try to isolate her and to become more intimate. I guess I can figure out something as there is a lot of info.

And yes it's very very tricky from any angle. I hope the prize worth it.

open marriage? cause if its not and your co workers who used to work with your wife find out and one of them tells her, then what

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No problem let me know how it goes.

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Are there even open marriages in this day and age? I thought "open" only goes as far as the relationships point.

In any case, I'll assume that it is and say this - getting a colleague to be your fuck buddy is a bad idea. Relationships in the work place don't often work out due to one reason or another.

On the other hand, if it's not open and you're just cheating (which is cool in my books) you probably have a bigger underlying problem in the marriage. If that's the case, it would be best to try and resolve it because it would be unhealthy otherwise.

Hi guys. Of course this is not an open marriage. I guess it is cheating. I don't want relationship but fuck buddy. I'll set the boundaries the first time I fuck her. But this is a topic of other discussion.

I am still stuck. I organized my colleagues to go out but she didn't come. So I'm trying to create sexual tension. There is friendly teasing between us and I want to convert it in sexual teasing. This has to be very slow, natural and unobtrusive. This week i started to touch her on the shoulder and after that on the back(I'm aiming the waist as more sensitive).

It was interesting today and I don't know is this IOI or just my fantasy plays tricks on me. I'll be four days off and she told me it's pity me and my colleague won't be there. One hour later I told her I'll go to work for some time to do something as she insists so much. Later on I pulled her hair from the back and she laughed.

I plan to try NLP and do anchoring.

Am I on the right path or doing something wrong(apart from cheating)? Ideas will be appreciated

So did you end up doing it? And did your wife/husband catch you?