Fuck i don't even know what to say… this pick up thing has taken my mind
i've been going out with a chick for moths but i can't date her cause i think she's hot and she might get attracted as well to other 'better guys', 'more pimp guys' and I'm not confident enough to dominate her, and if I dated her my mind would go crazy on how to be like... her best option. I just can't rely on personal values at all, i mean, i think I'm cool, but I'm ugly and i think her best friends think shit about me just like everyone else… i've been in an emotional crisis for like… really unstable 3 months… I'm having frequently sleep problems.. i just fucking wanted to be a normal personal who thinks about normal shit and be happy like I was when I was a fucking virgin!! sorry for being kinda pointless in this post, I've just come up to a point where i can't keep all this shit to myself, i mean, i need help

I don't even know what to think about anymore, I've tried all types of thoughts and behaviors but some of them make me feel better just for 2 or 3 days…. dude, fuck, theres so much in my head, this is just like 3% of all…

i've beeing pissed about being pissed… feeling but just about not knowing what to think about… fuck, i gotta do something crazy i don't know.. or whatever… can't stand thinking about this shit the hole weekend…

Fuck a dozen pussy. It helps. Normal people have sex. It keeps them grounded.

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Ive been having sex every weekend… like 3 fucks.

I just want to stop thinking about how to be a better version of myself… shit is fucking hard, not even worth trying… your mind just gets crazy… i don't even know what my real problem right now… has anyone ever gone trough some emotional shit like that that you don't even know how to think or what to think about??? dude, fuck, I haven't killed myself just because i love my work, my mind gets away of this inner game shit when I'm working… but it sucks on weekend… Im more pissed about the fact that I'm not sleeping well than the fact that makes me not sleep well… you know what i mean ??? stuff like that has making me crazy

so after i have sex with her i get bummed cause i think it was not good enough for her… cause our best fuck to me it was like, superb… to her she said it was just a good fuck… you know, not even having sex makes me feel better cause i think the sex with her ex boyfriend was better cause he looked better than me, and he was probably more confident… i mean, this might be bull shit, i might be making this up… but fuck, for some reason this is what i believe and can't say fuck off…

You don't want to compete. Competition stresses you out. Stay away from soda, cakes and other high sugar diets.

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thanks, i will try harder not to compete. I don't eat these things.

That was an observation. The advice was to stay away from foods that cause stress. If you don't want to compete, that means you have low testosterone.

Competition shouldn't stress you out but rather pump your adrenaline. That's the ideal.

Incels have one of the lowest t-levels among men; they don't want to compete, they don't want to watch competitive sports, don't listen to rock music, earn the lowest income, and so on. Wanting NOT to compete is not normal H. sapiens male behavior. Either you fix it or live with it.

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Stop fighting the crisis.....One of the reasons your mind is so chaotic is because your resisting it. You can't go back to the past, the idea that you can fight your way back to that past is what is driving you crazy...That "happy virgin" past is dead, face it.

Crisis's fade in then fade out..its like going through a tunnel and yeah it can get bad, really fucking bad.

This does sound depressing, but thinking about death can help in some cases.

Buy yourself loads of root teas and try and relax.

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The original title of this thread was: Can't stand this shit anymore, I just want to be normal

To OP:

We all sucked in the bedroom at one point in time. But many of the more experienced guys on here worked on improving their bedroom skills one day at a time until girls kept on begging these guys for more awesome banging.

You can still be the best that you can be. Start by desensitizing the head of your penis with constant regular practice. Hand jobs with mild lotions and some self control should do the trick.

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Thanks everyone for the help. I will consider all arguments and think about them. Maybe later i come up with an answer… Im pretty relaxed right now, still confused though.