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i claim that the right attitude with women is same as you see a reflection of warrior.
Prof.karen armstrong (bible and history researcher), writes in her books, about ancient bible times. she is mention in her book (the history of god), Canaanite goddess of war - Anat and some others *full list in wikipedia* , giving us strong indication that women fighters were very common at that days and praised a lot, also some facts indicates that woman were equal as man and even more (had higher status) other resources indicates that some tribes consisted of fighting women only, in contrast to what we see in Hollywood films, which i assume you know has nothing to do with facts and education.
why we didn't hear about it? might be because some religious interests and political once's, misrepresented and falsified the facts, as you may know christian religion controlled most of the western world thought fear.
if we combine this knowledge that women were good fighters, with their current high level of manipulation and strategic skills, we might see the flame of warrior inside hardwired for struggles and conquers.
women too sensitive to be warriors?
neuro-science shows that no action taken without emotions, same place that executes our decisions responsible for the emotions (see source: *you can look in ted for the lecture how great leader inspire us*.
some films might mislead and some might confirm, that the best warriors led by their feeling (Spartacus, gladiator). also look at armies or fighting groups/activists nowadays, best officers/soldiers come from families who educated their sons/daughters for deep feeling for the country/society.
people most of the time speaks, not whats on their mind, but what they should say to win the society confirmation, like a computer executing a part of program when it reaches to the code part, if we assume that woman has a warrior characteristics in our society, where films program our brain, woman might want to do the only one thing she expects the man to do.
yes, woman seat whole night on the bar wanting so much to approach a men, burning inside ,struggling with herself not to take action before a guy does (some may send signs of interests), resisting to stay in the boundaries that society (TV in this case) made for her, being afraid just like men afraid from the consequences approaching against society rule, but if she wasn't a warrior she probably quit fast, instead she might change bar or move to a club as methods of struggling with the inner voice, which tells her to approach the guy immediately, ignoring it, trying to create other opportunities for guys to approach in order fulfill the role given by society, thinking it's the right thing to do. her inner voice that tells woman to approach, its the same voice we silence, every time we chase them. The more pretty the woman the more guys approach her, the more society's attitude confirms in her mind, silencing the inner voice, the voice of the warrior.
professor Brene Brown mention one mistake: "we prefect our children".
she also says: "our children hardwired for struggle when they get here, our job isn't to make them prefect..."*you can look in ted for the lecture*
Guys our job isn't to chase or pursue woman or even approach first, in order to succeed we get inside a warrior's head, same as our head so is women's.
they are just like us, they hardwired for struggle, they are warriors they aren't beautiful toys which society tries to make them, its an illusion, the cute girl sitting on the bar waiting for the knight, she just programmed to sit there just like guys programmed think they need lots of money and luxuries to get a girl, they are imperfect, same as we are just different sex, think of it that way and i hope it will help you.
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