First off I just want to thank everyone who had provided me support in my last post on mid-game. I’m able to literally open anyone, making friends and approaching girls every chance I have. Within maybe 2 weeks or so of practicing I have come a long way. I am nowhere near where I want to be but that’s why I keep coming back here. I’m still new at this and I truly want to improve my game to 150%. Anyhow, my questions is that I have recently been gaming girls and I will get into conversation. I find ways to keep it interesting and spontaneous but I am having a hard stopping myself from filtering what I say. From time to time I will not filter what I say at all but recently I feel like I have had a tough time shutting of my filter and escalating. Also I'm having a difficult time with persuasion. I can get a girls number but I feel like my persuasion skills are yet to be desired (almost like they are watered down or I give up to easily if it comes to that) Does anyone have any tips on how to shut off a filter of what you say in a conversation and or persuasion?



GPUA

So you have a hard time trying to think what the girl wants to hear? If this is the issue, then you should just keep some "cheat sheets" of index cards (or smaller), that you can glance at before you approach.

If I am totally off subject about what you mean by "filtering", give more details please.

As for persuasion... This is tricky. Most, if not all women, know when someone is trying to persuade them. It's a fact.

If you want to persuade her, you have to lead into your persuasion using something called, future projections (I think that's what it's called).

This is basically, if I remember correctly, where you tell her a story that has you and her in a future setting, doing stuff together, that she WANTS to do (you find this out by asking open ended questions).

In order to actually persuade someone, you have to have their TRUST, at least a little bit before they will start to really listen and hear what you're saying. When this happens, their unconscious mind OPENS UP to you, and makes persuading this person super easy.

Remember to build trust. Future projections. Plant your embedded commands. Plant subtle persuasive commands, and see if she complies with the small commands. If she does, keep making the commands bigger and bigger, until you start to see resistance, then take a step back, and keep working on that trust. Rinse and repeat.

I don't think that you're ready for the Sexual Decoder System, so don't DOWNLOAD IT NOW so you can read what women are saying just from their body language. This stuff is powerful.

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First off thanks for your response. You answered half of my question. Even before I had a chance to read your post I went out and tried to work on my filtering. What I mean by that is talking about filthy things to a girl like hj/bj sex etc. Today I cold approached a girl and did just that. I even escalated big time today by kinoing harder than I ever have before and getting a kiss on the cheek at the end (I tried to normally kiss close on the lips a few times throughout our interaction - I think the girl kind of started to think it was excessive but more humorous than seductive).


I was using a lot of us and we but I never truly moved out of banter into rapport. I think the banter was getting so fun that I kind of just lingered there. Could you give me an example of how to plant commands and how you can use them to build trust please?

GPUA